Travelling with a toddler is about more than whether they’ll remember it. Or so, I hope.

First of all, traveling or not, parenting is hard. Whether you love the idea of bringing your toddler to see the world or dread it, we all get nervous when it comes to planning a trip with a little one in tow. 

Despite all the fun of discovering new places, I think we can all agree that travelling comes with its own set of headaches—the planning, packing, enduring long flights, and then dealing with the mess of unpacking when we get back… it’s a lot.

And when you throw a toddler into the mix? Well, it’s a whole new game ball.

It’s definitely not always the peaceful, idyllic kind you see in those perfect holiday reels on Instagram. But it can still be a meaningful experience that both you and your toddler can benefit from, and even look forward to.

The chaos and joy of travelling with a toddler

My husband and I took our son on his first overseas trip when he was just shy of 1 year old, a few weeks after travel restrictions were eased post-pandemic.

I’ll admit, traveling with a toddler is a mix of mess and magic. Yes, there are tantrums, sudden naps (or sudden cravings for fresh breastmilk) in the middle of sightseeing, and endless distractions that turn a quick walk into a lengthy adventure.

And yes, we’re constantly on edge, trying to keep our curious little one entertained, making sure he doesn’t slip out of our sight, all while hoping we’ve packed everything and can make it to the next stop without any drama.

But then there are those beautiful moments too—the breathtaking views, the one-of-a-kind attractions we can only find in that place, and the joy of experiencing something new together.

Will my toddler even remember any of that? Probably not. But I’d do it again anyway, because to me, that’s not the point.

It’s about the now

I think we put too much pressure on travel needing to be ‘memorable.’ But what about the joy of simply being in a new place together?

People love to point out that toddlers won’t remember the places you take them, as if that’s the only reason to go anywhere or do anything.

We don’t hang out with friends and share a meal just to remember every bite. We don’t listen to a song we love just to memorise every lyric. Some experiences are worth having simply because they bring joy in the moment.

Even if he won’t recall the specific details, he’s still experiencing new places, new people, new ways of living. He’s tasting different foods (or at least poking at them suspiciously), hearing unfamiliar languages, and running through streets that look nothing like home.

For toddlers, everything is about the present moment. He doesn’t need to remember the details of our beach day to have felt the breeze and sand beneath his feet. He doesn’t need to recall the exact details of the fjord cruise we took to have enjoyed the ride.

Do the pros outweigh the cons?

When you think about it, all the tantrums, the constant demands for snacks, and the unpredictable nap schedules can happen at home too.

Sure, there’s a little more stress when you’re navigating a new place or trying to keep everything on track, but honestly, those moments of chaos are something we have to deal with anyway, whether we’re at a theme park or just running errands.

The difference is that when we travel, we get the added bonus of being somewhere exciting or experiencing new things together. After all, those challenges are just part of the journey.

There is so much more than just making memories

Travelling benefits both you and your toddler in ways you might not realise. Your toddler may not have clear memories of every trip, but the experiences still shape them.

I’m no expert in child development, but here’s why I think taking my toddler on trips is worth it.

There are reasons why experts stress the importance of infant stimulation and letting babies experience new things. These early experiences play a key role in their overall development.

Babies won’t remember the first lullaby you sang to them. Or even the first time they felt the sun on their skin. But we sing anyway, talk to them, kiss them, and bring them to the parks because we know those little moments matter. They help them feel safe, loved, and connected, even without forming concrete memories.

In the same way, travel exposes toddlers to fresh environments, different cultures, and new sensory experiences that help them develop adaptability and resilience, skills that will serve them well as they grow.

Even if they can’t recall where they’ve been, the sights, sounds, and the change in routine help expand their cognitive and emotional development. Much like their early milestones, the experiences they gain from travelling add to their rich tapestry of learning and growth.

Travel changes me too

Toddlers find joy in the simplest things, and they definitely don’t need to travel to grow. But for me, it provides a chance to refresh and gain new perspectives once in a while—something we all need to stay sane, parents or not.

Vacationing with a toddler is challenging, but it’s also shifted my perspective on what it means to explore. I’ve slowed down. I’ve learned to appreciate the simple things—the sound of waves at the beach, watching him laugh at the sound of birds chirping, sharing ice cream on a park bench, or simply enjoying a quiet sunset together.

I’ll remember the way his face lit up when the fireworks went off at Disneyland. I’ll remember how he spun around with the bubble wand, chasing the bubbles as they drifted by. I’ll remember how he was amazed by the night view from our hotel window as he pointed to everything.

And honestly? I’d rather have these moments than wait for some mythical ‘right time’ when he’s old enough to remember everything perfectly. Because let’s be real, by the time he is, he might be too cool to hold my hand in a new city or get excited over a simple gelato stand.

So even if he won’t remember these trips, I will. And I’ll keep taking him on them because those moments matter to me. These are the memories I’ll hold onto, and I know they’ll shape the way I see the world, too.

Clear priorities are the key to creating a home that works for you. Here’s how to figure out what needs to come first (with realistic examples).

When you live with limited space, knowing your priorities helps make organising and decluttering more purposeful and straightforward.

But how do you define what matters most at home? How do you actually set priorities so you can make more intentional decisions about what to keep and what to let go?

The “perfect” home

I used to go back and forth with decluttering and the mess kept coming returning because I didn’t know what my idea of a perfect home was. Without that vision, it’s impossible to make lasting changes.

Trendy items also made it harder. I would follow trends instead of creating a cosy home that truly felt right for me. But once I figured out what kind of home I wanted, it became easier to decide what to keep and let go of.

While each person’s version of a perfect home may differ, I think we can all agree that an ideal home should have at least these three qualities:

1. It supports our daily lives.
2. It brings us comfort.
3. It reflects our values.

These qualities serve as the foundation of the perfect dream home that we should all strive for. No amount of expensive furniture or fancy decorations can make up for a space that holds you back from living the way you want.

Now, let’s take a closer look at each of these qualities to understand how they can guide your decluttering process:

1. It supports our daily lives.

Your home has to work with your lifestyle, not against it. It should be a tool for your needs that makes your day-to-day life go smoother. Think about how you use your space: What helps with your routine? What’s just taking up space, both physically and mentally? Find out what works for you to make your space function better.

2. It brings us comfort.

Comfort is about creating a peaceful environment where you can feel relaxed and at ease. It’s not about filling your home with extra cushions or trendy furniture, but a clean, healthy space that you can easily maintain. Your home, even if it’s small, should support that. If certain items make you feel stressed or clutter your mind (or space), it might be time to rethink their value in your home.

3. It reflects our values.

From the way you decorate to the things you keep, your home should tell your story, not someone else’s. It should feel authentic and meaningful to you. This personal connection will help you feel more grounded in your space. Instead of following fleeting trends, choose what truly resonates with you.

When you focus on creating a home that works for you (whether it’s through functionality, comfort, or emotional well-being), only then you’ll gain a clearer understanding of what you truly need in your home.

How to set your priorities when decluttering

Now that you know the three things to aim for in your home, here are the next steps to determine what’s essential in your small space and help you make more intentional choices:

Start by asking yourself

Take a moment to think about your habit. What items do you reach for regularly? What do you actually love and use? What makes you feel good? Are there things that make your daily tasks simpler or more enjoyable?

These are the things that should take priority in your space. If an item doesn’t play a role in your routine, it might not be worth keeping.

Evaluate how items serve your home’s function

Think about how each item fits into your life. Does the 12-piece dinnerware set truly fit your lifestyle, or are a few plates and bowls more than enough? If you don’t host large dinner parties regularly and prefer a simple, functional approach to dining, keeping a huge set might not make sense.

When you assess items based on their function, you’ll choose what truly supports your lifestyle.

Consider emotional value

Take note of what you genuinely love and feel connected to. That said, not everything in your home needs to be highly functional—some items bring you comfort, whether it’s physical or psychological.

Emotional connection can transform an item from just another object into something that enriches your living space. But even in this case, ask yourself if they’re truly adding to the space in a meaningful way, or if they’re just sitting there forgotten.

Stay true to your style

It’s tempting to think your home needs to follow certain decor fads to look good. While exploring new design ideas can be fun, at the end of the day, what matters most is how your space serves you.

Choose what feels meaningful and functional for you first, rather than chasing trends. A home that reflects your true needs and values will always be in style.

Sorting what stays and what goes (real-life examples)

Here are some realistic decluttering examples to help illustrate how to make intentional decisions in your small home:

Living area

• If your living room is filled with decorative pieces that gather dust faster than your motivation to clean, it’s time to reconsider their place. Aim for a space that’s comfortable, not just for looks.
• If you don’t host guests often, you may not need a large, bulky dining table or extra seating that takes up valuable space. Choose smaller, multifunctional pieces that serve your daily needs without crowding the room.

Kitchen

• If you wash dishes after each meal, there’s no need for excessive pots and pans or redundant utensils. Stick to the essentials that make meal prep efficient.
• If you rarely bake, those specialty baking pans or gadgets probably aren’t necessary. Keep the items you actually use, like a basic set of pots and pans for regular cooking.
• If you have limited storage space, avoid stocking up on large quantities of items that can’t be stored efficiently. Buy only what you can realistically store and use within a certain period.

Clothes

• If you don’t wear formal attire often, there’s no need to keep a large collection of dress shoes, suits, or blazers. Opt for versatile pieces that work for various occasions.
• If you prefer comfort over fashion trends, consider letting go of items you never wear, like high heels or restrictive clothing, and focus on pieces that truly fit your everyday style.
• If your wardrobe has a mix of sizes from different stages of life, focus on keeping what fits well and makes you feel confident right now.

Toys and hobbies

• If your kids are older, those piles of baby clothes, books, or toys they’ve outgrown can be donated. Doing so helps free up storage space and keeps it functional.
• If you don’t do DIY projects often, those extra tools taking up space in the drawers may not be necessary. Keep only the items you actually use.
• If you’ve accumulated sentimental items like old letters, keepsakes, or memorabilia that no longer bring you joy, allow yourself to let go of them without guilt. Consider digitising them to preserve the memories without taking up physical space.

Your ideal lifestyle

If you’re not happy with certain aspects of your daily life, visualising a better version of it can guide your decluttering choices. For example:

• If you feel like you’re constantly doing chores and want to spend less time cleaning, strive for a home with fewer high-maintenance items that make daily upkeep harder. This could mean cutting back on decorative pieces that collect dust or clothes that need special care.
• If you want to lead a healthier life, design your home in a way that promotes better habits and reduces unhealthy temptations. This could mean clearing out processed foods from your pantry or letting go of gadgets that distract you from being active.

Purposeful decluttering is more than just about reducing stuff.

It’s about understanding yourself, your habits, and what truly adds value to your life. When you take control of that, decluttering stops being a never-ending task and becomes a way to create a home that supports and reflects who you are.

Running out of space? Don’t rush into throwing things away just yet! Here’s what you should figure out first before you even start sorting.

The idea that small spaces are easier to declutter is a common misconception. In reality, it can be more challenging. With limited room, every corner has to be used efficiently, which can be tricky, especially when you’re sharing your space with other family members.

As I became a parent, keeping our small home tidy definitely became much harder than when it was just the two of us. It takes more planning and effort, but once I’ve established a few simple strategies that align with my family’s needs, it gets easier.

Decluttering looks different for every family

I currently live with my husband, our 3-year-old son, and our toy poodle in a 92sqm HDB flat in Singapore, which is quite typical for many people here. While we may all share the experience of living in similarly sized homes, everyone’s circumstances are unique.

You might be a parent to a newborn, beginning to realise just how overwhelming it can be to add another person to the mix. Or perhaps you’re living with older kids whose toys and belongings are starting to take over. Maybe you’re sharing your compact home with extended family, where everyone’s stuff seems to grow daily.

The truth is, decluttering isn’t a one-size-fits-all thing that works the same for everyone. However, there’s a common ground most of us can agree on that makes the process more manageable, and it all starts with how we look at decluttering.

Declutter intentionally

Do you think of decluttering as just cleaning and throwing things away once in a while? If you do, it can feel like a never-ending project, with things piling up again over time.

The goal of decluttering shouldn’t be about getting rid of things, but about making the space work better. Once you shift your mindset, you’ll be ready to tackle it with a clear focus.

So, what does that mean? It means that instead of seeing decluttering as just a task of clearing out stuff when it gets messy, you start viewing it as an opportunity to optimise the space you have.

It’s about making sure every corner is used wisely and every item serves a purpose to make your home functional for everyone living in it. When you focus on creating a space that works for your family’s lifestyle, the process becomes much more intentional, and even enjoyable.

Making space for what matters

What matters most may be different for each family, but once you figure out your needs, it gets rather straightforward. Essentially, you organise your home to fit your lifestyle and get rid of anything that’s preventing you from making the most of your space and routine.

Decluttering is more than just tidying up, it’s also about discovering who you are. What are your priorities? What aren’t?

Below is an example of how we’ve developed a decluttering strategy that fits our family’s lifestyle in our small home.

Background:

Since becoming parents, creating a family-friendly home has been a top priority for us. We turned part of the living room into a playroom and made our home office double as a study space that can grow with our child. This way, our little one can play and explore safely while we’re nearby, giving us space to hang out and spend more time together as a family.

When it comes to decor, my husband and I prefer a minimalist style and don’t stress over making our home look “picture-perfect.” We focus more on functionality and making it easy to clean, especially since we handle all the cleaning ourselves. For us, having a clean home with space for our toddler and dog to roam around safely is way more important than creating a perfect aesthetic.

Here are some decluttering strategies that work for us:

1. Neutral colours: We stick to neutral colours to keep things looking clean and cohesive. This allows the furniture and storage solutions (baskets, bins, drawers, etc.) to blend in seamlessly with the space without drawing too much attention. Neutral colours help make the room feel more spacious and less cluttered.

2. Zoning: We divide our home into specific areas, each with its own purpose. The office/study is for working or doing creative activities, the living area is for playing and family time, the bedroom is for sleeping and storing books and toys, etc. This keeps the space organised and clutter under control, as everything has its own “home” to return to by the end of the day.

3. No duplicates: In our shared spaces, we keep only one of each common household item. This means no redundant stationery, kitchen tools, or multiple versions of the same thing. Everyone is responsible for putting things back in their proper place, which helps us keep clutter at bay and ensures that everything is easy to find when needed.

4. Daily tidying routines: I set an alarm every evening at 7:30 p.m. to signal that the day is winding down. This gives everyone time for a quick tidy-up and to reset the space, along with our usual nighttime routine, so my child is in bed by 8:00 p.m. This simple habit makes it much easier to maintain a tidy home in the long run.

5. Function over aesthetics: We rarely have visitors, except during festive seasons or birthdays, and even then, it’s just a few close family and friends. So, we prioritise what works for our day-to-day life over what a home is “supposed” to have. We skip things like coffee tables, extra seating, or fancy decorations because we simply don’t find them necessary. Removing the nonessentials makes it much easier to keep our small space tidy.

What’s important to you?

As everyone’s living situation and preferences are different, ultimately, you’ll have to tailor any decluttering strategies to fit your needs. Take a moment to pause and reflect. Get to know yourself first and think about what’s truly important in your life.

Sometimes, you might find that a lot of the things you’ve been keeping no longer serve a purpose. I’ve learned to accept that it’s okay to grow and evolve. As time passes, you change, and so do your needs and priorities.

So, before you go through your things, ask yourself these questions first: Who am I? What kind of person am I aspiring to be? What kind of family am I building, and what values do I want to prioritise?

Once you have these questions sorted out, only then will the process of decluttering feel much easier and more meaningful.

If you’re struggling to identify your priorities, check out this simple guide to help you declutter with more purpose.

A simple, easy-to-carry bag that makes sorting a breeze. Perfect for small spaces without dedicated recycling bins!

Do you make the effort to recycle, or does everything just go in the trash?

When you recycle, it can sometimes feel like a small effort, but it adds up. Every bit counts, and the more we can make it part of our daily routine, the bigger impact we have.

Recycling in Singapore homes

Living in Singapore, it’s hard to ignore how much plastic and packaging we go through daily, whether it’s takeaway containers, bubble tea cups, or grocery packaging. I often find myself feeling guilty about the waste and try to do my part by recycling as much as I can.

Fortunately, the recycling system here is convenient, with plenty of programs in place to make it easy. I like that I can simply toss all my recyclables into the blue bins under my block anytime.

That being said, I didn’t collect the Bloobox, the home recycling box that was being distributed free of charge a while ago. Honestly, I found it a bit awkwardly shaped and not very flexible. Since I tend to collect a fair amount of recyclables before throwing them out, the Bloobox was just too small to fit things like cardboard boxes from my dog’s canned food, even after flattening and folding them.

Finding my ideal recycling method

When space is limited, it’s important to make the most of every bit of space, including how we handle recycling. Without a dedicated area, recyclables can easily pile up in random corners of the house and make the space feel cluttered.

Here are some of the considerations when deciding on my current recycling system at home:

• I want to do my part, but I don’t have space for large sorting bins. I need storage that’s flexible and easy to tuck away.
• I want to be able to collect enough recyclables to fit 1-2 weeks’ worth without cluttering the house.
• I want to be able to sort and carry my recyclables right away into the bin to save effort.
• I want to make recycling easy and accessible for everyone in the house (including my toddler).

For a while, I had been contemplating buying IKEA SORTERA sorting bins because they look sturdy and nice. But then I imagined how much space they would take up and how much of a hassle it would be to sort everything and then take it all out to the recycling bin again.

I realised I just need something simple that can be easily cleaned because, after all, the goal is to make recycling effortless, not another chore. And that’s where the Daiso Recycle Bag comes in.

Why I chose the Daiso Recycle Bag

This bag is not only affordable, but also compact, simple, spacious, and most importantly, easy to carry. It’s lightweight, can be folded away when not in use, and has separate sections to sort recyclables effortlessly.

It can stand upright by itself. Unlike bulky recycling bins that take up valuable floor space, I can easily tuck this bag into a corner or have the option to hang it on a hook. When it’s full, I can just grab the handles and take it straight to the recycling point. No mess, no fuss.

The best thing about this recycling bag is that it comes with pre-designed labels (paper, glass/metal, plastic), making it super easy to sort my recyclables. It’s also waterproof and easy to clean. Plus, if I need to go out after recycling, I can simply fold the bag neatly and bring it with me without any hassle.

The open-top design is great because it makes tossing items in so much easier. You can even do it with one hand since there’s no lid to deal with. I don’t have to worry about any smells because I always make sure my recyclables are clean and dry before putting them in.

Having a kid at home, my husband and I often find ourselves digging through our recycling station to repurpose materials. A big recycling bag like this is super convenient because it acts as a temporary holding space, especially when we’re building something fun or working on art and crafts projects for our toddler. It’s like a treasure chest of materials just waiting to be transformed!

Setting up a mini recycling station

Since I don’t have space for multiple bins, I use the Daiso bag as a central collection point for all of my recyclables. Here’s how I keep things organised:

1. Assign a spot

I keep the bag in the storeroom near the kitchen, where most recyclables like bottles and packaging pile up. It’s tucked away on the bottom shelf so it’s easy for my toddler to reach and help with recycling.

2. Clean and sort as needed

I make sure everything is clean and dry before recycling it. I don’t separate all the materials at home since they end up in one blue bin under my block anyway, but the sorting labels are a great way for my kid to learn about different types of recyclables.

3. Take it out

Because the bag has plenty of room and is easy to carry, I can empty it every few days. But I also have the option to collect more if I’m feeling lazy. It’s convenient and flexible!

A simple, affordable solution to recycling

For just a few dollars, the Daiso Recycle Bag gives me a simple, budget-friendly way to keep recycling organised without adding clutter to my small home.

Even with limited space, a little organisation can make a big difference. Having a designated spot for recycling helps keep things tidy and makes it easier to stick to the habit. Small changes like this add up over time!

This year, our advent calendar is all about making memories, with zero waste and non-item-based fillers.

Our advent calendar tradition began when my son was just one year old. I’m glad we started it because it makes each Christmas feel more special and fun for the whole family.

This year, I decided to make the holiday season even more meaningful by taking a minimalist and eco-friendly approach.

Spread joy, not waste!

First of all, toys are great, and my child absolutely loves his collection. I won’t deny that they bring him plenty of joy and happiness.

But as I made this year’s advent calendar, I started thinking about how to enrich his holiday experience with moments that aren’t just about “things.” Now that he’s a bit older and more aware of the season, I want him to discover joy and happiness beyond material possessions.

Secondly, while Christmas can be wonderful with all its lovely ornaments and decorations, it can also be wasteful. It adds to overflowing landfills, and for some reason, it makes me feel guilty to constantly contribute to that.

This holiday season, I want to prioritise sustainability and make an effort to go greener. I’m trying to cut down our impact on the environment by sticking to materials that are either reusable, recyclable, or low-waste.

So instead of buying more toys, I focus on filling the advent calendar with small activities and non-tangible surprises that create meaningful moments and encourage us to spend more time together.

Here’s an Instagram reel showing how my simple, non-toy-based 2024 advent calendar turned out:

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DIY easy advent calendar with reusable materials

This is probably the easiest and laziest advent calendar I’ve ever made. It’s simple, versatile, and can be put together pretty quickly!

Supplies & materials

• 24pcs of envelopes (any sizes you want, mine is 8x13cm)
• Canva app (you can download for free!)
• A4 or letter size paper
• Printer
• 24 pcs of wooden clothespin
• Twine

Step by step

Step 1: Download the Canva app if you haven’t already. Start a new project with A4 size or letter size, depending on the paper that you’re going to print on.

Step 2: Go to “Templates” and search for “advent calendar.” You’ll find plenty of beautiful designs to choose from—simply pick one that you like!

Step 3: You can customise each date by adjusting the element sizes or changing the font of the numbers as desired, but I decided to just print them as it is to save time.

If you want to speed things up, feel free to use the template I that prepared on Canva here—just print and cut! You’ll need Canva Pro to remove the logo.

Step 4: Once you’re happy with the design, download all the pages so you can print them.

Step 5: Send the files to your printer and print them. Then use scissors to trim each date.

Step 6: Insert your fillers into each envelope, fold them closed, and secure the printed date together with a clothespin. You can add small items like stickers or toys, but if you’re interested in non-item-based activities, I’ll cover those ideas later, so keep reading!

Step 7: Hang them on a twine, and you’re done!

Personally, I like to print them separately so I can reuse the envelopes, but if printing isn’t an option, you can simply write the dates directly on the envelopes.

Display your environmentally conscious advent calendar as you count down the days to Christmas.

Non-item-based advent calendar ideas for kids

This year, our advent calendar is all about creating experiences and memories through simple activities that allow us to spend quality time together. So instead of toys and treats, I prepared 24 small prompts for activities we’ll do each day.

I decided to get a little creative by designing each prompt on Canva with small graphic illustrations. But to keep it simple, you can just write down the activities instead. After all, the real “gift” is the experience itself.

Here are 24 non-physical advent calendar activity prompts I prepared for my kids, for your inspiration:

1. Visit a holiday light display

Take a drive or walk around to admire holiday light displays. Orchard Road is the way to go if you’re in Singapore, as it’s beautifully decorated with festive lights and stunning displays during the holiday season.

2. Nature treasure hunt

Head outside for a short walk together! Look for leaves, sticks, or small rocks to bring home as natural decor or craft supplies. It adds a touch of nature to your holiday setup.

3. Holiday-themed DIY crafts

DIY projects are a great way to spend time together. Get creative with simple holiday crafts, such as making paper snowflakes, creating handprint art, painting ornaments, or using natural objects to craft something special.

4. Make holiday cards

Use colourful paper, markers, or stickers to create holiday cards together. For younger children, you can help them trace their hands to make simple drawings. Write a sweet message inside and give the cards to family or friends.

5. Dress-up day

Playing dress-up is a fun way for kids to use their imagination and get into the holiday spirit. They can pretend to be Santa, an elf, a reindeer, or any favourite holiday character on a make-believe adventure.

6. Plan a picnic indoor

Setting up an indoor picnic is a fun way to create a special moment with your kids. Spread a blanket on the floor, prepare some snacks, and enjoy a cosy meal together. It’s a simple activity that brings extra joy to a regular day.

7. Gift wrapping day

Set up a gift wrapping station with paper, tape, and ribbons. Let the kids help wrap presents or add their own decorations. It’s a fun way to share the excitement of giving!

8. Volunteer or donate together

Teach your child the joy of giving back to spread holiday cheer. Spend time volunteering or donating toys, clothes, or food to those in need.

9. Make a gratitude tree

Create a gratitude tree by cutting out paper leaves. Write something you’re thankful for each day and add it to the tree. It’s a lovely way to reflect on the blessings of the season.

10. Sing Christmas carols together

Pick your favourite Christmas carols and sing together. You can even make it a mini concert, with your child performing for the family.

11. Holiday story time

Sit together and read festive holiday books. Pick stories about Santa, reindeer, or the true meaning of Christmas.

12. Make holiday playdough

Create some holiday-themed playdough together. Use red and green colours, add glitter or peppermint scents. Let your child shape the dough into holiday creations like stars, angels, or snowmen.

13. Family game night

Have a cosy family game night with Christmas-themed games. Play classic board games or make up your own holiday games.

14. Take a family holiday photo

Family holiday photo is a fun way to capture memories and enjoy some holiday cheer together. You can even turn it into a yearly tradition by using matching outfits or a creative backdrop!

15. Holiday-themed science experiment

Try a fun holiday-themed science experiment like making fake snow or a snow globe. It’s a great way to mix learning with holiday fun.

16. Look through family photos

One way to connect with the past and enjoy memories together is by sharing stories about family traditions and celebrations. Gather some old family photos and talk about past holiday memories.

17. Watch the sunset or sunrise

Take a moment to watch a quiet sunset or sunrise together and enjoy the beauty of nature. Simply being present with one another is a peaceful way to connect.

18. Cocoa time

Make hot cocoa (or iced cocoa if you’re in a tropical place like me) and enjoy it together. Add marshmallows, whipped cream, or a dash of cinnamon for extra fun.

19. Call or video chat a family member

Set aside time to call or video chat with a family member. It’s a lovely way to stay connected, especially if they live far away.

20. Holiday movie night

Snuggle up in your favourite blankets and watch a Christmas classic together with some popcorn or snack.

21. Decorate a gingerbread house

Have fun decorating a gingerbread house together. You can buy a ready-made kit or make your own from scratch. Let your child use their creativity to add colourful icing, candy, and decorations to make it their own masterpiece!

22. Bake cookies together

Spend some time baking holiday cookies. Let the kids help with mixing, rolling, and decorating. The best part is enjoying the freshly baked treats together, or sharing them with others.

23. Create a family time capsule

Create a family time capsule by writing down your favourite memories and hopes for the future, then stamp it with today’s date. Fill it with mementos from the year and bury it or store it somewhere safe. You can open it together in the years to come to reminisce about the past and see how things have changed.

24. Spend time reflecting on the year

Sit down together to reflect on the past year. If you’d like, set up a camera to talk about the highlights, lessons learned, and things you’re grateful for. It’s a wonderful way to bond, keep memories, and appreciate the year that’s come to an end.

I know parents are often busy during the holiday season. While some of these activities are simple and can be done in minutes, others do require more effort to prepare. For the ones that take more time, I would plan them for the weekends.

If you’re short on time, there’s no pressure to do them all. You can still mix in toys and treats with the activities, and they will still create lasting memories.

The best gifts often come from spending time together.

This holiday season, I hope to inspire others to find joy in simple things too, as there are so many ways to feel joy that aren’t all about material possessions.

Stuffing an advent calendar with toys or treats is convenient, but if you have the time and resources, why not try filling it with meaningful activities that create bonding moments each day? These moments of connection are what should truly bring happiness.

If you ever feel overwhelmed by your child’s clothing, a capsule wardrobe can help. Here’s how I created one.

Clothes tend to pile up quickly when you have a growing child. Having a capsule wardrobe has helped me keep things under control. It simplifies our routine by narrowing down choices to a few versatile pieces.

Not only does it save time, but it also ensures that everything in my kid’s closet is something he actually wears and that suits his active lifestyle.

What is a capsule wardrobe?

A capsule wardrobe is a minimalist approach to clothing. It consists of a limited number of versatile items that can be mixed and matched to create a variety of outfits.

The idea is to focus on a smaller number of high-quality, timeless pieces rather than a large, varied wardrobe. This approach often results in a more cohesive and functional wardrobe.

Benefits of a capsule wardrobe for kids

Here are some benefits you’ll get when you build a capsule wardrobe for kids:

Simplifies the dressing process

When you have a smaller selection of clothes, it reduces the time spent choosing outfits each day. It makes getting dressed smoother and less stressful for both parents and kids.

Provides a curated selection of versatile, high-quality pieces

A capsule wardrobe focuses on selecting versatile items that can be mixed and matched. This approach encourages you to choose pieces that are of higher quality and work well together.

Reduces closet clutter

Fewer items mean less clutter in the closet. An organised wardrobe not only looks better but also makes it easier to keep the space tidy.

Ensures all clothes get worn enough

With fewer, versatile pieces that get plenty of wear, you make the most of each item’s footprint. It promotes a more sustainable fashion cycle and helps reduce landfill waste.

Simplifies laundry management

With fewer clothes to manage, laundry becomes less of a chore. It’s easier to keep track of what’s clean and what’s dirty, and there’s less sorting and organisation required.

A guide to create a capsule wardrobe for toddlers

A capsule wardrobe for young children has a different dynamic than one for adults in the sense that it is should be more focused on flexibility and growth. It could be simpler, prioritising comfort and ease of dressing over fashion trends.

With fewer pieces, the focus when building a capsule wardrobe for toddlers is on practicality that allows for quick outfit changes and easy maintenance.

Here’s a step-by-step guide I use to create a capsule wardrobe for my 3-year-old:

Step 1: Assess current wardrobe

Review what your toddler already has, and remove any items that are too small, worn out, or rarely worn.

I started by going through my toddler’s current clothes, looking for items that fit and were in good condition. I set aside anything that was no longer in use. This helped me see what we really needed.

Step 2: Choose a colour palette

Pick a few coordinating colours that mix and match easily. Neutral tones work well with brighter accents.

With toddlers, the great thing about colour is that there’s no need to stress over it. You can have fun—any colour, pattern, or design will look cute on them! But if you prefer a more streamlined and cohesive look, having a colour palette can be helpful.

My toddler loves bright colours and designs featuring his favourite things, like trucks or cars. It’s fun, and it’s completely okay to let kids have those options!

My approach is to keep the basics neutral: a few neutral-coloured tops and bottoms. This way, we can easily mix and match pieces to create various outfits for different occasions.

Step 3: Select essential pieces

Focus on versatile items like tops, bottoms, and outerwear that will be used often. Consider the climate and season when making your choices.

More important than colour is having the right types of clothing pieces in your child’s closet.

Since I live in Singapore, where it’s hot and humid year-round, we stick to staple short-sleeve tops and shorts for daily wear.

The amount of clothing needed for each child can vary depending on how often they change and how frequently you do laundry.

Although I do his laundry every two days, I keep enough clothes for a week (which is how long we usually go on vacation without doing laundry), but not more.

Ironically, when toddlers have too many clothes, we tend to dress them in the same outfit over and over again simply because it’s convenient—and digging through everything else is just too much hassle. This shows that they don’t actually need that many clothes!

Step 4: Opt for quality and comfort

Choose well-made, comfortable clothing that can withstand daily wear and frequent washing.

Now that you know what types of clothing pieces you need for your child, you can shop with that idea in mind. This way, you won’t end up buying items that will only be worn once or twice.

but try to resist the temptation to buy too much. It’s usually not worth the clutter you’ll have to manage. Focus on quality over quantity whenever possible.

Step 5: Add versatile accessories

Include a few accessories that can enhance different outfits and are USEFUL.

But again, there’s no need to buy too many. A few hats, a few pairs of socks, or even just one pair of sunglasses is usually enough. It keeps the wardrobe functional and manageable.

Step 6: Keep Special Outfits Separate

Keep special occasion pieces separate from everyday wear to avoid distractions when choosing outfits.

I try to be mindful when buying special occasion outfits for my toddler, especially ones that are only appropriate for specific events, like Chinese New Year or Christmas. Toddlers grow up so quickly, and most of these outfits only get worn once. Instead of buying something overly festive, I prefer to choose pieces that are more wearable, just in colours that match the occasion, to avoid unnecessary purchases.

When I do buy something special, I don’t hang onto it for long. I usually find a way to donate it as soon as possible when I know it won’t get much wear.

However, I do keep dress-up costumes because my toddler loves using them for pretend play. I keep these separated from daily wear to avoid clutter and distractions when getting dressed.

Step 7: Evaluate periodically

Adjust the wardrobe as seasons change, adding or swapping out pieces as needed.

Since toddlers grow so quickly, you need to update their wardrobe to keep up with their changing sizes and needs.

I usually will go over the wardrobe every 6 months to reassess and check what still fits, what might need to be added or replaced, and whether the clothing still suits the child’s needs and activities.

If you live in a place with four seasons, you can also further simplify and reduce clutter by refreshing their wardrobe twice a year. For example, instead of updating their outfits every three months, you could organise the wardrobe around “Spring & Summer” and “Autumn & Winter.”

A well-dressed child is one who feels comfortable.

Building a capsule wardrobe for my toddler has made dressing so much easier. It saves time and reduces stress.

I love knowing that my child looks good and feels comfortable every day. If you’re struggling with an excess of clothing or want to make getting dressed simpler for both you and your child, I encourage you to give a capsule wardrobe a try!

Here are some ideas on how we organised our small entryway into a functional space where the entire family can get ready with ease.

For parents with young children, getting ready can be a challenging process. It often involves juggling multiple tasks to make sure everyone has their essentials. From finding shoes to applying sunscreen or a mosquito patch, every little task count.

A well-organised entryway can help everyone locate what they need quickly and make getting ready a smoother experience. With a thoughtful setup, mornings can feel more manageable. It also allows families to start their day on a positive note.

Less is more!

The key to a clutter-free entryway is to fill the space only with what’s necessary. Too many items can make it hard to find what you need when you need it.

Living with limited space, I’ve found that adopting this minimalist approach helps keep our home practical and uncluttered. Our entryway is small, yet we manage to store everything we need there.

What’s in our entryway

As we live in a compact apartment, every item counts. Here is everything we store in our entryway as a family with a 3-year-old toddler and a small dog:

In the shoe cabinet:

• 16 pairs of adult shoes (including daily slippers and winter vacation boots)
• 4 pairs of kid shoes, with a space for few extra pairs
• Small plastic chair
• Kid-friendly sunscreen

In the full-length cabinet:

• 4 sling bags and 2 backpacks (belong to my husband)
• Small bag to carry essentials when going out with toddler (for his extra clothes, diapers, etc.)
• Hats
• Stocks of small tissue packs (dry and wet)
• Stocks of mosquito repellents
• Stocks of small hand sanitisers
• Stocks of masks
• Candle supplies
• Fire extinguisher
• Raincoats
• Small vacuum cleaner and duster
• Small mirror

On top of the shoe cabinet:

• Storage to hold daily essentials
• Tray for keys and spare coins

In the DB cabinet:

• Dog’s grooming caddy
• Dog leashes
• Dog clothes
• Other dog-related essentials

On the wall hooks:

• My daily bag
• Kid’s backpack
• Space to hang daily essentials

Our entryway is actually created by slicing off a small portion of our living room, separated by just a partial wall. This means it’s practically part of our main living area. I aim to keep the space functional but also want it to stay organised and visually appealing to avoid any eyesores.

Because of this, we don’t store sports equipment or bulky outdoor gear in our entryway. These items are typically not used every day, so they are kept in their own designated storage elsewhere in the house.

We try not to let ‘just in case’ items accumulate and add unnecessary clutter. When space is a concern, it’s worth curating what’s truly essential and what can be stored elsewhere.

How we create a family-friendly entryway in small space

Here are some of the ideas I’ve implemented to make our compact entryway functional for everyone in the house, including our toddler and dog:

1. Leave some empty space

In our shoe cabinet, we aim to keep enough empty space for at least 2 extra pairs of shoes at all times instead of filling it completely. The same rule applies to my husband’s bags, which are also stored in the entryway. This allows for flexibility if we need extra room.

If we have more shoes or bags than the storage allows, we’ll get rid of the old ones or those we rarely wear. This might sound silly for an already space-short room, but this minimalist mindset encourages us to be intentional with our purchases and mindful of what we let into our home.

2. Use vertical space

Utilising vertical space is a great way to keep items off the floor and within easy reach.

I installed two wall-mounted hooks: one at adult height for my daily bags, which I often use for dog walks and grocery runs, and another at my toddler’s height.

The lower hook makes it simple and accessible for l my toddler to hang up their own things easily. This way, the entryway stays neat and clutter-free.

3. Make essentials reachable for little hands

To make any space kid-friendly, think of ways to make items accessible for children. Arrange things so that what they need is easy to reach and use. This means lowering items you want them to access independently and keeping anything unsafe out of reach.

Besides the lower hooks for bags, we’ve also made small adjustments to help our child learn to be independent with putting on his shoes.

Our shoe cabinet doors are seamless and handle-free. It’s a bit challenging for my 3-year-old to open since the cabinet is also quite tall for his current height. For now, we’ve added small plastic handles that he can easily hold to open the doors.

Our kid’s daily shoes are stored at a low level on the back of the door to save space. The left side is for slippers or open shoes and the right side is for covered shoes. This separation makes it easy for him to remember where to take or put them back.

I also hang a small, foldable plastic chair on the back of the door. It helps him sit while putting on his shoes. I keep a bottle of sunscreen there too to maximise space.

This cabinet door setup is simple but makes the space more toddler-friendly and encourages independence. It lets him open the door, see his footwear options, take out what he wants, and wear it with minimal help.

4. Create a designated spot for everything

Things can easily get messy if they don’t have a designated ‘home’ after use. No matter how insignificant some items may seem, find a specific spot to store them once you’re home.

In my entryway, I make sure to have enough storage containers to hold everything we need. This makes it easy for us to grab what we need before heading out.

This also includes making space for our dog’s items, like his daily leash, grooming supplies, and other essentials. We keep all the dog-related items in our DB cabinet.

Having a specific spot for each item encourages everyone to keep the entryway organised, which also helps kids learn about tidiness.

5. Keep it simple

When organising our entryway, I focused on keeping the decor simple. I chose a few key items, such as a small plant and a simple art piece to add a touch of warmth without creating clutter.

A clean and minimal aesthetic makes the space feel more spacious and allows the family to move around easily. Plus, cleaning is simpler when there aren’t too many items on display.

6. Declutter regularly

I make it a habit to regularly declutter the entryway. Every 3 months, I review what we have and remove anything that no longer serves a purpose.

This helps prevent unnecessary clutter from accumulating and keeps the space functional. I also try to involve my toddler in this process to instill the valuable skill of decluttering.

When the entryway is tidy, it encourages everyone to keep it that way.

The entryway is the first area we see when we come through the door. It plays an essential role in our daily routines.

A good entryway should be functional, easy to navigate, and enable everyone in the family to grab their items before heading out the door without much hassle.

With a few adjustments and some effort, the entryway can become a functional and visually appealing part of our home.

Here’s a helpful guide to creating a fun, engaging, and stimulating environment for kids without overcrowding your home.

When it comes to toys, less can truly be more. As a minimalist mama, I’ve learned that it’s not the quantity of toys that matters most, but the variety and stimulation they offer.

The Cons of Having Too Many Toys

A well-curated selection of toys can foster an engaging and organised play environment that allows children to focus and develop their creativity and organisational skills.

On the other side, having too many toys can lead to several downsides, including:

1. Overstimulation: An abundance of toys can overwhelm a child, making it difficult for them to focus on or enjoy any single toy. This can lead to shorter attention spans and decreased playtime quality.
2. Clutter and Disorganisation: Excess toys can clutter play areas, leading to a chaotic environment that may hinder a child’s ability to engage in creative play and can cause stress for parents managing the space.
3. Reduced Appreciation: When children have too many toys, they may not fully appreciate or value each one. This can diminish their sense of attachment and make playtime less meaningful.
4. Difficulty in Choosing: With too many options, children might struggle to make decisions about what to play with, which can lead to indecision and frustration.
5. Increased Maintenance: More toys mean more cleaning and organising. This can be a significant task for parents and detracts from quality family time.
6. Less Imaginative Play: Excessive toys can limit a child’s creativity, as they may rely on pre-made toys rather than inventing their own games and scenarios.

The Right Number of Toys for Each Age Group

So, how many toys is too many?

Refer to this guide to help you strike the right balance of toy counts based on your child’s developmental stage without cluttering the space.

The toy quantities mentioned here are recommendations for how many toys a child should play with at a time to ensure optimal play and avoid overwhelming them.

If you have a larger home that can house more toys, consider keeping them in separate rooms so that your child only has access to a manageable number at a time. The exception is when they are older or can clearly communicate their preferences; in such cases, try to respect their wishes.

Infants (0-12 months)

For newborns, sensory toys are essential for stimulating their developing senses. In the early months, focus on items like rattles, soft plush toys, and high-contrast objects that engage their sight and sound. By around 6 months, as your baby begins to reach, grasp, and teeth, introduce toys that support these new skills. Here’s a simple guide to keep in mind:

• Sensory Toys: Rattles, soft fabric books, and toys with different textures.
• Motor Skill Toys: Toys that encourage reaching and grasping, such as soft balls or teething rings.
• Teething Toys: Safe, chewable items designed to soothe gums and support teething.

Aim for 5-6 toys in these categories to offer a range of sensory experiences without overwhelming your baby.

Toddlers (1-3 years)

As toddlers grow, they’re busy developing motor skills and language, so it’s essential to choose toys that support these developments and spark their creativity. Consider including:

• Building Blocks: These help with fine motor skills and understanding shapes and sizes.
• Simple Puzzles: Puzzles that are easy to handle promote problem-solving and hand-eye coordination.
• Interactive Books: Books with flaps, textures, or sounds can boost their language skills and interest in reading.
• Open-Ended Toys: Toys like playdough, magnetic tiles, art supplies, and dress-up clothes encourage imaginative play and creativity.

A mix of 7-8 toys that promote these skills is ideal. Balance between durable toys and those that provide a bit of a challenge to keep your toddler engaged and promote learning.

Preschoolers (3-5 years)

Preschoolers thrive on toys that foster creativity, problem-solving, and social interaction. At this age, it’s great to provide options that encourage imaginative play and skill development. You can offer the following:

• Art Supplies: Items like crayons, markers, and playdough to inspire their artistic side.
• Dress-Up Clothes: Costumes and accessories for role-playing and imaginative adventures.
• Educational Games: Puzzles, memory games, and interactive books to challenge their minds and foster learning.

Having 10-12 toys in these categories provides a diverse range that can grow with their changing interests and abilities. This selection helps make playtime both fun and educational.

Early School Age (6-8 years)

As children enter school, they benefit from toys that blend learning with physical activity. At this age, it’s important to include items that cater to both their academic growth and physical development. You can include these options:

• Science Kits: Engaging kits that explore basic science concepts and experiments.
• Sports Equipment: Gear for activities like soccer, basketball, or biking to encourage physical activity.
• Strategy Games: Board games and puzzles that challenge their thinking and promote problem-solving skill.

About 12-15 toys in these categories should be enough, providing a mix of opportunities for both solo and group play. This variety supports their developing skills and keeps them engaged in a balanced way.

Pre-Teens (9-12 years)

As children approach their pre-teen years, their interests and skills become more focused. At this stage, it’s beneficial to provide toys and activities that align with their hobbies and social needs. Things that may engage them:

• Advanced Craft Kits: Kits that support creative projects and personal expression.
• Sports Gear: Equipment for their favourite sports or physical activities.
• Science Experiments: Kits and tools for exploring more complex scientific concepts.
• Strategy-Based Games: Games that challenge their problem-solving and strategic thinking skills.

Around 15-20 toys or tools in these categories will offer a good balance, supporting their developing interests and encouraging both independent and collaborative activities. This selection helps promote critical thinking, teamwork, and creativity.

Teenagers (13-18 years)

As teenagers develop, their focus moves towards personal interests and practical tools that reflect their growing independence. At this stage, prioritise items that cater to their specific hobbies and future goals. Consider:

• Tech Gadgets: Items like headphones, smartwatches, or tablets that align with their interests.
• Creative Supplies: Tools for hobbies such as drawing, music, or digital design.
• Sports Equipment: Gear for their favourite sports or fitness activities.
• Hobby-Related Items: Supplies or equipment for activities they are passionate about, such as coding kits or crafting tools.

A well-curated selection will offer a balanced range of stimulation and support their unique interests and developmental needs, respecting their growing independence while providing meaningful engagement.

Knowing When to Add or Reduce Toys

Here are some signs that your child might need more toys or that their current toys might not be sufficient:

Signs They Need More Toys:

1. Boredom: If your child frequently complains about being bored or shows little interest in their existing toys, it might be a sign they need more variety to stimulate their imagination and engagement.
2. Repetitive Play: If your child is overly fixated on just a few toys and seems disinterested in others, they might benefit from new toys that offer different kinds of play.
3. Social Interaction: If your child struggles to play with others or seems to lack appropriate toys for group activities, adding toys that encourage cooperative play can be beneficial.
4. Developmental Needs: If your child is reaching new developmental milestones and their current toys no longer challenge or support those skills, it may be time to introduce new, age-appropriate toys.

Signs They Have Too Many Toys:

1. Overwhelmed by Choices: If your child seems overwhelmed when choosing a toy or frequently abandons toys in favour of another, they might have too many options, making it hard to focus on any one toy.
2. Cluttered Play Area: If their play area is consistently disorganised and cluttered despite your best efforts to tidy up, it could be a sign that there are too many toys.
3. Loss of Interest: If your child has a large number of toys but often says they don’t know what to play with, it might be an indication that the sheer volume of toys is making it difficult for them to engage with any one item.
4. Difficulty in Finding Toys: If it’s challenging for your child to locate their toys or if they regularly misplace them, the excess toys could be contributing to this problem.

Monitoring these signs can help you strike the right balance between providing enough variety to keep your child engaged and avoiding the pitfalls of too many toys.

Balancing Quantity and Quality

This guide provides general recommendations for the right number of toys based on age groups, but it’s important to remember that these are not strict rules.

Each child is unique, and their toy needs can vary based on individual interests, developmental stages, and family circumstances. What works well for one child might not be ideal for another.

It’s essential to adjust the number and types of toys according to your child’s specific needs and preferences, ensuring a balanced and engaging play environment tailored to their growth and development.

Remember, while having a few toys in each category is helpful, it’s more important to focus on how each toy engages your child’s senses and encourages development. Rotate toys periodically to keep the play experience fresh and exciting. The goal is not to clutter their space but to provide a stimulating environment that grows with them.

With this simple IKEA hack, you can create a functional and stylish study area for kids that will grow with them without sacrificing space or spending a fortune.

Recently, we decided to give our home office/study room a little makeover. Now that we are parents, our goal is to make this room a space that the entire family can use, not just us adults.

On days when we work from home, we wanted to involve our little one by allowing him to stay close while engaging in his own activities.

To achieve this, we thought that building him a small study corner somewhere in the room would be great. This corner would enable him to draw, build LEGO, look at picture books, or play independently while we work.

However, with limited space in our small home, we needed to find a creative solution that not only maximises our space effectively but also looks good, is suitable for a small child, and can grow with him.

IKEA BOAXEL Hack: Turning a Wall-Mounted Storage System into a Kids’ Desk

The product we’re using today is the IKEA BOAXEL. While BOAXEL is commonly used for wall-mounted storage and wardrobe organisation, it also provides a fantastic solution for creating a space-saving study nook that can evolve with your child.

The BOAXEL system features easy-to-click-on and remove interiors that allow you to customise, change, and rearrange your setup as needed. This flexibility makes it an excellent choice for a children’s desk, as you can adjust the height to accommodate their growing bodies.

Why Choose IKEA Boaxel?

With its smart design and flexibility, the BOAXEL system is an excellent choice for creating a makeshift study corner for these following reasons:

1. Space-Saving Design: The BOAXEL system is designed to be mounted on the wall, so it doesn’t take up valuable floor space. This makes it ideal for creating a compact study nook in a small area.

2. Adjustable Heights: One of the standout features of the BOAXEL system is its adjustable shelves. As your child grows, you can easily reposition the shelves to accommodate their height.

3. Simple and Stylish: The BOAXEL shelf is available in white or oak effect, both of which are stylish options that complement any interior. I especially appreciate the simple yet elegant design that offers a chic look and enhances your room’s decor without overpowering it.

4. Compact Yet Versatile: The BOAXEL system’s slim profile fits snugly into corners, making it perfect for smaller rooms where space is limited. Despite its compact size, it provides enough surface area for workspace and storage for kids.

If you have more than one child or need more length, you can simply add additional shelves to extend the system or add shelves above to create a vertical storage for their growing study needs—from early learning materials to more advanced study aids.

In addition to shelves, the BOAXEL system also offers mesh baskets that can be used as drawers. It provides a versatile storage solution to suit your needs and preferences.

How to Build DIY Study Corner with IKEA BOAXEL

Here’s how we transform the IKEA BOAXEL system into a compact yet functional study corner for our child:

Gather the Tools and Materials

You’ll need IKEA BOAXEL system, including shelves, brackets, and wall uprights.

BOAXEL shelves come in two sizes: 80×40 cm and 60×40 cm, both of which are ideal for kids. For our child, we chose the 80×40 cm size, which fits perfectly in the space between the wall and the bookcase in our home office.

It’s worth noting that IKEA also offers 20-30 cm adjustable shelves that can be combined with other BOAXEL units, allowing you to further utilise the space.

The wall uprights, which form the base of BOAXEL wall-mounted system, are also available in two height options: 100 cm and 200 cm. We used the 100 cm uprights, but if you plan to add more shelves for additional storage above, you might prefer the taller 200 cm option for more flexibility.

Purchase enough units based on the length you want for the desk and the number of personalised storage shelves you’ll need. For our setup, here’s what we bought:

• 1 x BOAXEL shelf, 80×40 cm, oak effect
• 2 x BOAXEL wall upright, 100 cm
• 2 x BOAXEL bracket

You’ll also need tools and supplies to install the system, such as a drill, wall anchors, screws, and a screwdriver.

Assemble the IKEA BOAXEL System

Plan Your Layout: Decide where you want to install the BOAXEL system. Measure the space to ensure it fits comfortably in the chosen corner.

Install the Wall Uprights: Follow the IKEA assembly instructions to install the wall uprights. Ensure they are level and securely anchored to the wall. To make installation easier, you can use the BOAXEL mounting rail, which helps keep the uprights straight and correctly positioned on the wall.

Add Shelves: Once the uprights are in place, attach the brackets at the desired height and then add the shelves. Position them at a height that’s comfortable for your child. Don’t worry if you need to adjust them later—you can simply pull the brackets up to reposition the shelves.

DONE! Now all you need is a comfortable chair that fits the space, and your BOAXEL system is ready to serve as a desk for your kids.

Personalise Your IKEA BOAXEL as It Grows with Your Child

The beauty of the BOAXEL system lies in its adaptability. As your child’s needs change, you can easily adjust the height of the shelves or rearrange the layout to accommodate new items or interests.

For example, as they advance in school, you can add more shelves above to make room for storing school supplies, books, and art materials.

You can also incorporate additional organisers, bins, pegboards, or hooks to keep supplies neatly arranged and accessible.

Let your child personalise their study corner with their favourite colours, artwork, and accessories. This will make the space inviting and encourage them to spend more time there.

If you set up this system in a home office like ours, your kids can use it for drawing, working on projects, playing, or even pretending to work just like you while you’re at your own desk nearby.

The Space-Saving Study Corner

The IKEA BOAXEL system is a versatile solution for creating a study space that grows with your child. It adapts to their changing needs and helps them stay organised from their early years through their school journey.

This DIY IKEA hack project not only makes efficient use of your space but also creates a functional and stylish study area that your child will love.

Ever find yourself staring at a cluttered room, feeling overwhelmed by the mess, and wondering why you can’t just seem to finish cleaning and organising your home? You’re not alone. Many people struggle with this, and the reasons can be varied and complex.

Why You Can’t Seem to Finish Cleaning and Organising and How to Solve It

Struggling with cleaning and organising your home can be frustrating, but understanding the reasons behind it can help you find solutions. Here are some common obstacles and practical examples to help you tackle them:

1. Overwhelm

The task feels too big to tackle all at once.

You might feel daunted by the thought of cleaning the entire house in one go. The sheer scale of the task can make it feel impossible to tackle all at once. It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the thought of sorting through everything.

• Example: The thought of decluttering the entire wardrobe can seem too much to handle.
• Solution: Break the task into smaller, manageable chunks. Start with one corner or one drawer at a time.

2. Lack of Motivation

You’re just not motivated to start or continue.

Sometimes, you just don’t have the drive to start or keep going. Without motivation, even the smallest tasks can seem monumental.

• Example: You keep putting off tidying the living room because you’re not in the mood.
• Solution: Set a timer for 10 minutes and focus on cleaning during that time. Often, getting started is the hardest part, and once you begin, you may find it easier to continue beyond the initial 10 minutes.

3. Perfectionism

You’re waiting for the perfect time or conditions to start.

Waiting for the perfect time, mood, or conditions can stall your progress. Sometimes, you need to accept that “good enough” is better than perfect.

• Example: You’re waiting for a day when you have uninterrupted time to clean the bathroom.
• Solution: Accept that it’s okay to make progress in small steps. You don’t need perfect conditions to start.

4. Distractions

You’re easily sidetracked by other activities or tasks.

Other activities or tasks can pull you away from cleaning. A quick check of your phone or a call from a friend can derail your efforts.

• Example: You plan to clean the windows but end up browsing social media instead.
• Solution: Put your phone in another room, turn off notifications, or schedule a dedicated time for cleaning when you can eliminate distractions.

5. Procrastination

You keep putting off the task for later.

Putting off the task for later might feel like a small delay, but it often results in a never-ending cycle of delays.

• Example: You keep postponing sorting through old papers and end up with a growing pile.
• Solution: Use a planner to schedule specific times for cleaning and stick to it, treating it like an important appointment.

6. Lack of Time

You have a busy schedule and can’t find time.

With a busy schedule, finding time for cleaning and organising can be challenging. Other priorities can take precedence over tidying up.

• Example: Your work and family commitments leave you with little free time.
• Solution: Allocate small, specific time slots for cleaning tasks, like 15 minutes before bed or during a lunch break.

7. No Clear Plan

You don’t have a structured plan or system in place.

Without a structured plan or system, it’s hard to know where to start or how to continue. A vague approach often leads to inaction.

• Example: You want to organise the kitchen but aren’t sure if you should sort equipments first or clean the shelves.
• Solution: Create a step-by-step plan and list the tasks in order of priority. Having a roadmap can guide you through the process.

8. Unrealistic Goals

Your goals are too ambitious or impractical.

Setting overly ambitious or impractical goals can be discouraging. Breaking tasks into manageable steps can make a big difference.

• Example: You aim to completely redecorate the entire house in a day.
• Solution: Set realistic, achievable goals, such as organising one room or area per week.

9. Indecision:

You struggle with making decisions about what to keep or discard.

Struggling with what to keep or discard can cause paralysis. The process of decision-making can be exhausting and slow.

• Example: You hesitate over whether to keep old clothes that no longer fit.
• Solution: Use a decision-making framework, like the “keep, donate, discard” method, to make choices more straightforward.

10. Feeling Burdened by Clutter

Too much clutter makes it hard to know where to start.

Too much clutter can make it difficult to figure out where to begin. The mess itself can be overwhelming.

• Example: A playroom full of toys makes it difficult to know where to begin.
• Solution: Start by clearing one small area or surface to create some immediate, visible progress and reduce the feeling of overwhelm.

11. Physical or Mental Fatigue

You’re too tired or stressed to put in the effort.

If you’re tired or stressed, it’s hard to muster the energy needed for cleaning and organising. Fatigue can be a significant barrier.

• Example: You’re too exhausted after work to tackle the laundry.
• Solution: Schedule cleaning for when you have more energy or break tasks into shorter sessions to avoid burnout.

12. Lack of Skills or Knowledge

You don’t know the best methods or techniques.

Not knowing the best methods or techniques for organising can make the task seem more daunting. A little research can help.

• Example: You’re unsure of the best way to organise your entryway.
• Solution: Look up tips and tutorials online or ask for advice from friends who are experienced in organising.

13. Emotional Attachment

Difficulty letting go of sentimental items.

Letting go of sentimental items can be incredibly tough. Emotional connections to belongings can slow down the decluttering process.

• Example: You struggle to part with old gifts from friends or family.
• Solution: Keep a few meaningful items and consider taking photos of the rest before letting them go.

14. Inconsistent Routine

You don’t have a regular cleaning and organising routine.

Without a regular cleaning and organising routine, it’s easy to let things slide. Consistency helps maintain order over time.

• Example: You clean only when the house gets too messy.
• Solution: Establish a consistent cleaning schedule, such as a quick tidy-up each day and a more thorough clean each week.

15. Overcommitment

You have too many other commitments or responsibilities.

Balancing too many commitments or responsibilities can leave little time or energy for home organisation. Prioritising can help manage this.

• Example: Juggling work, family, and social commitments leaves no time for home organisation.
• Solution: Prioritise your tasks and consider delegating some responsibilities or finding small pockets of time for cleaning.

16. Lack of Support

You’re doing it alone and could use help or encouragement.

Doing it alone can be challenging. Having help or encouragement from others can make the task more manageable and less lonely.

• Example: You’re trying to organise the whole house by yourself.
• Solution: Enlist the help of family or friends. Tackling tasks together can make them more manageable and enjoyable.

17. No Immediate Results

You don’t see quick results, so you lose motivation.

Not seeing quick progress can be demotivating. Celebrate small victories to keep yourself motivated.

• Example: You’ve spent hours cleaning the pantry but it still looks cluttered.
• Solution: Focus on smaller, incremental achievements and reward yourself for each completed task to stay motivated.

18. Unclear Priorities

Other tasks or goals seem more urgent or important.

Other tasks or goals might seem more pressing. When cleaning and organising isn’t a top priority, it often gets pushed aside.

• Example: Work deadlines and family events overshadow cleaning duties.
• Solution: Reassess your priorities and set aside dedicated time for cleaning, recognising its importance for your overall well-being.

19. Inadequate Storage Solutions

You don’t have effective storage options.

Without effective storage options, it’s hard to find a place for everything. Investing in good storage solutions can make a big difference.

• Example: Your current storage solutions don’t accommodate all your belongings efficiently.
• Solution: Invest in better storage solutions, such as shelving or organisers, to create more space and improve accessibility.

20. Disorganisation

A lack of organisation in your cleaning approach makes it hard to follow through.

A lack of organisation in your cleaning approach can make it hard to follow through. Developing a clear strategy can help streamline the process.

• Example: You start cleaning the bedroom, then get distracted by mess in the kitchen.
• Solution: Develop a systematic approach, tackling one area at a time and using a checklist to stay organised and focused.

Identify Your Challenges and Seek Solutions

If you find yourself struggling with any of these issues, remember that it’s okay to start small and take one step at a time. Sometimes, the key to success is simply finding a way to get started and keeping momentum going. Be patient with yourself and celebrate small victories along the way.