Our advent calendar tradition began when my son was just one year old. I’m glad we started it because it makes each Christmas feel more special and fun for the whole family.

This year, I decided to make the holiday season even more meaningful by taking a minimalist and eco-friendly approach.

Spread joy, not waste!

First of all, toys are great, and my child absolutely loves his collection. I won’t deny that they bring him plenty of joy and happiness.

But as I made this year’s advent calendar, I started thinking about how to enrich his holiday experience with moments that aren’t just about “things.” Now that he’s a bit older and more aware of the season, I want him to discover joy and happiness beyond material possessions.

Secondly, while Christmas can be wonderful with all its lovely ornaments and decorations, it can also be wasteful. It adds to overflowing landfills, and for some reason, it makes me feel guilty to constantly contribute to that.

This holiday season, I want to prioritise sustainability and make an effort to go greener. I’m trying to cut down our impact on the environment by sticking to materials that are either reusable, recyclable, or low-waste.

So instead of buying more toys, I focus on filling the advent calendar with small activities and non-tangible surprises that create meaningful moments and encourage us to spend more time together.

Here’s an Instagram reel showing how my simple, non-toy-based 2024 advent calendar turned out:

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DIY easy advent calendar with reusable materials

This is probably the easiest and laziest advent calendar I’ve ever made. It’s simple, versatile, and can be put together pretty quickly!

Supplies & materials

• 24pcs of envelopes (any sizes you want, mine is 8x13cm)
• Canva app (you can download for free!)
• A4 or letter size paper
• Printer
• 24 pcs of wooden clothespin
• Twine

Step by step

Step 1: Download the Canva app if you haven’t already. Start a new project with A4 size or letter size, depending on the paper that you’re going to print on.

Step 2: Go to “Templates” and search for “advent calendar.” You’ll find plenty of beautiful designs to choose from—simply pick one that you like!

Step 3: You can customise each date by adjusting the element sizes or changing the font of the numbers as desired, but I decided to just print them as it is to save time.

If you want to speed things up, feel free to use the template I that prepared on Canva here—just print and cut! You’ll need Canva Pro to remove the logo.

Step 4: Once you’re happy with the design, download all the pages so you can print them.

Step 5: Send the files to your printer and print them. Then use scissors to trim each date.

Step 6: Insert your fillers into each envelope, fold them closed, and secure the printed date together with a clothespin. You can add small items like stickers or toys, but if you’re interested in non-item-based activities, I’ll cover those ideas later, so keep reading!

Step 7: Hang them on a twine, and you’re done!

Personally, I like to print them separately so I can reuse the envelopes, but if printing isn’t an option, you can simply write the dates directly on the envelopes.

Display your environmentally conscious advent calendar as you count down the days to Christmas.

Non-item-based advent calendar ideas for kids

This year, our advent calendar is all about creating experiences and memories through simple activities that allow us to spend quality time together. So instead of toys and treats, I prepared 24 small prompts for activities we’ll do each day.

I decided to get a little creative by designing each prompt on Canva with small graphic illustrations. But to keep it simple, you can just write down the activities instead. After all, the real “gift” is the experience itself.

Here are 24 non-physical advent calendar activity prompts I prepared for my kids, for your inspiration:

1. Visit a holiday light display

Take a drive or walk around to admire holiday light displays. Orchard Road is the way to go if you’re in Singapore, as it’s beautifully decorated with festive lights and stunning displays during the holiday season.

2. Nature treasure hunt

Head outside for a short walk together! Look for leaves, sticks, or small rocks to bring home as natural decor or craft supplies. It adds a touch of nature to your holiday setup.

3. Holiday-themed DIY crafts

DIY projects are a great way to spend time together. Get creative with simple holiday crafts, such as making paper snowflakes, creating handprint art, painting ornaments, or using natural objects to craft something special.

4. Make holiday cards

Use colourful paper, markers, or stickers to create holiday cards together. For younger children, you can help them trace their hands to make simple drawings. Write a sweet message inside and give the cards to family or friends.

5. Dress-up day

Playing dress-up is a fun way for kids to use their imagination and get into the holiday spirit. They can pretend to be Santa, an elf, a reindeer, or any favourite holiday character on a make-believe adventure.

6. Plan a picnic indoor

Setting up an indoor picnic is a fun way to create a special moment with your kids. Spread a blanket on the floor, prepare some snacks, and enjoy a cosy meal together. It’s a simple activity that brings extra joy to a regular day.

7. Gift wrapping day

Set up a gift wrapping station with paper, tape, and ribbons. Let the kids help wrap presents or add their own decorations. It’s a fun way to share the excitement of giving!

8. Volunteer or donate together

Teach your child the joy of giving back to spread holiday cheer. Spend time volunteering or donating toys, clothes, or food to those in need.

9. Make a gratitude tree

Create a gratitude tree by cutting out paper leaves. Write something you’re thankful for each day and add it to the tree. It’s a lovely way to reflect on the blessings of the season.

10. Sing Christmas carols together

Pick your favourite Christmas carols and sing together. You can even make it a mini concert, with your child performing for the family.

11. Holiday story time

Sit together and read festive holiday books. Pick stories about Santa, reindeer, or the true meaning of Christmas.

12. Make holiday playdough

Create some holiday-themed playdough together. Use red and green colours, add glitter or peppermint scents. Let your child shape the dough into holiday creations like stars, angels, or snowmen.

13. Family game night

Have a cosy family game night with Christmas-themed games. Play classic board games or make up your own holiday games.

14. Take a family holiday photo

Family holiday photo is a fun way to capture memories and enjoy some holiday cheer together. You can even turn it into a yearly tradition by using matching outfits or a creative backdrop!

15. Holiday-themed science experiment

Try a fun holiday-themed science experiment like making fake snow or a snow globe. It’s a great way to mix learning with holiday fun.

16. Look through family photos

One way to connect with the past and enjoy memories together is by sharing stories about family traditions and celebrations. Gather some old family photos and talk about past holiday memories.

17. Watch the sunset or sunrise

Take a moment to watch a quiet sunset or sunrise together and enjoy the beauty of nature. Simply being present with one another is a peaceful way to connect.

18. Cocoa time

Make hot cocoa (or iced cocoa if you’re in a tropical place like me) and enjoy it together. Add marshmallows, whipped cream, or a dash of cinnamon for extra fun.

19. Call or video chat a family member

Set aside time to call or video chat with a family member. It’s a lovely way to stay connected, especially if they live far away.

20. Holiday movie night

Snuggle up in your favourite blankets and watch a Christmas classic together with some popcorn or snack.

21. Decorate a gingerbread house

Have fun decorating a gingerbread house together. You can buy a ready-made kit or make your own from scratch. Let your child use their creativity to add colourful icing, candy, and decorations to make it their own masterpiece!

22. Bake cookies together

Spend some time baking holiday cookies. Let the kids help with mixing, rolling, and decorating. The best part is enjoying the freshly baked treats together, or sharing them with others.

23. Create a family time capsule

Create a family time capsule by writing down your favourite memories and hopes for the future, then stamp it with today’s date. Fill it with mementos from the year and bury it or store it somewhere safe. You can open it together in the years to come to reminisce about the past and see how things have changed.

24. Spend time reflecting on the year

Sit down together to reflect on the past year. If you’d like, set up a camera to talk about the highlights, lessons learned, and things you’re grateful for. It’s a wonderful way to bond, keep memories, and appreciate the year that’s come to an end.

I know parents are often busy during the holiday season. While some of these activities are simple and can be done in minutes, others do require more effort to prepare. For the ones that take more time, I would plan them for the weekends.

If you’re short on time, there’s no pressure to do them all. You can still mix in toys and treats with the activities, and they will still create lasting memories.

The best gifts often come from spending time together.

This holiday season, I hope to inspire others to find joy in simple things too, as there are so many ways to feel joy that aren’t all about material possessions.

Stuffing an advent calendar with toys or treats is convenient, but if you have the time and resources, why not try filling it with meaningful activities that create bonding moments each day? These moments of connection are what should truly bring happiness.

Clothes tend to pile up quickly when you have a growing child. Having a capsule wardrobe has helped me keep things under control. It simplifies our routine by narrowing down choices to a few versatile pieces.

Not only does it save time, but it also ensures that everything in my kid’s closet is something they actually wear and that suits their active lifestyle.

What is a capsule wardrobe?

A capsule wardrobe is a minimalist approach to clothing. It consists of a limited number of versatile items that can be mixed and matched to create a variety of outfits.

The idea is to focus on a smaller number of high-quality, timeless pieces rather than a large, varied wardrobe. This approach often results in a more cohesive and functional wardrobe.

Benefits of a capsule wardrobe for kids

Here are some benefits you’ll get when you build a capsule wardrobe for kids:

Simplifies the dressing process

When you have a smaller selection of clothes, it reduces the time spent choosing outfits each day. It makes getting dressed smoother and less stressful for both parents and kids.

Provides a curated selection of versatile, high-quality pieces

A capsule wardrobe focuses on selecting versatile items that can be mixed and matched. This approach encourages you to choose pieces that are of higher quality and work well together.

Reduces closet clutter

Fewer items mean less clutter in the closet. An organised wardrobe not only looks better but also makes it easier to keep the space tidy.

Ensures all clothes get worn enough

With fewer, versatile pieces that get plenty of wear, you make the most of each item’s footprint. It promotes a more sustainable fashion cycle and helps reduce landfill waste.

Simplifies laundry management

With fewer clothes to manage, laundry becomes less of a chore. It’s easier to keep track of what’s clean and what’s dirty, and there’s less sorting and organisation required.

A guide to create a capsule wardrobe for toddlers

A capsule wardrobe for young children has a different dynamic than one for adults in the sense that it is should be more focused on flexibility and growth. It could be simpler, prioritising comfort and ease of dressing over fashion trends.

With fewer pieces, the focus when building a capsule wardrobe for toddlers is on practicality that allows for quick outfit changes and easy maintenance.

Here’s a step-by-step guide I use to create a capsule wardrobe for my 3-year-old:

Step 1: Assess current wardrobe

Review what your toddler already has, and remove any items that are too small, worn out, or rarely worn.

I started by going through my toddler’s current clothes, looking for items that fit and were in good condition. I set aside anything that was no longer in use. This helped me see what we really needed.

Step 2: Choose a colour palette

Pick a few coordinating colours that mix and match easily. Neutral tones work well with brighter accents.

With toddlers, the great thing about colour is that there’s no need to stress over it. You can have fun—any colour, pattern, or design will look cute on them! But if you prefer a more streamlined and cohesive look, having a colour palette can be helpful.

My toddler loves bright colours and designs featuring his favourite things, like trucks or cars. It’s fun, and it’s completely okay to let kids have those options!

My approach is to keep the basics neutral: a few neutral-coloured tops and bottoms. This way, we can easily mix and match pieces to create various outfits for different occasions.

Step 3: Select essential pieces

Focus on versatile items like tops, bottoms, and outerwear that will be used often. Consider the climate and season when making your choices.

More important than colour is having the right types of clothing pieces in your child’s closet.

Since I live in Singapore, where it’s hot and humid year-round, we stick to staple short-sleeve tops and shorts for daily wear.

The amount of clothing needed for each child can vary depending on how often they change and how frequently you do laundry.

Although I do his laundry every two days, I keep enough clothes for a week (which is how long we usually go on vacation without doing laundry), but not more.

Ironically, when toddlers have too many clothes, we tend to dress them in the same outfit over and over again simply because it’s convenient—and digging through everything else is just too much hassle. This shows that they don’t actually need that many clothes!

Step 4: Opt for quality and comfort

Choose well-made, comfortable clothing that can withstand daily wear and frequent washing.

Now that you know what types of clothing pieces you need for your child, you can shop with that idea in mind. This way, you won’t end up buying items that will only be worn once or twice.

but try to resist the temptation to buy too much. It’s usually not worth the clutter you’ll have to manage. Focus on quality over quantity whenever possible.

Step 5: Add versatile accessories

Include a few accessories that can enhance different outfits and are USEFUL.

But again, there’s no need to buy too many. A few hats, a few pairs of socks, or even just one pair of sunglasses is usually enough. It keeps the wardrobe functional and manageable.

Step 6: Keep Special Outfits Separate

Keep special occasion pieces separate from everyday wear to avoid distractions when choosing outfits.

I try to be mindful when buying special occasion outfits for my toddler, especially ones that are only appropriate for specific events, like Chinese New Year or Christmas. Toddlers grow up so quickly, and most of these outfits only get worn once. Instead of buying something overly festive, I prefer to choose pieces that are more wearable, just in colours that match the occasion, to avoid unnecessary purchases.

When I do buy something special, I don’t hang onto it for long. I usually find a way to donate it as soon as possible when I know it won’t get much wear.

However, I do keep dress-up costumes because my toddler loves using them for pretend play. I keep these separated from daily wear to avoid clutter and distractions when getting dressed.

Step 7: Evaluate periodically

Adjust the wardrobe as seasons change, adding or swapping out pieces as needed.

Since toddlers grow so quickly, you need to update their wardrobe to keep up with their changing sizes and needs.

I usually will go over the wardrobe every 6 months to reassess and check what still fits, what might need to be added or replaced, and whether the clothing still suits the child’s needs and activities.

If you live in a place with four seasons, you can also further simplify and reduce clutter by refreshing their wardrobe twice a year. For example, instead of updating their outfits every three months, you could organise the wardrobe around “Spring & Summer” and “Autumn & Winter.”

A well-dressed child is one who feels comfortable.

Building a capsule wardrobe for my toddler has made dressing so much easier. It saves time and reduces stress.

I love knowing that my child looks good and feels comfortable every day. If you’re struggling with an excess of clothing or want to make getting dressed simpler for both you and your child, I encourage you to give a capsule wardrobe a try!

For parents with young children, getting ready can be a challenging process. It often involves juggling multiple tasks to make sure everyone has their essentials. From finding shoes to applying sunscreen or a mosquito patch, every little task count.

A well-organised entryway can help everyone locate what they need quickly and make getting ready a smoother experience. With a thoughtful setup, mornings can feel more manageable. It also allows families to start their day on a positive note.

Less is more!

The key to a clutter-free entryway is to fill the space only with what’s necessary. Too many items can make it hard to find what you need when you need it.

Living with limited space, I’ve found that adopting this minimalist approach helps keep our home practical and uncluttered. Our entryway is small, yet we manage to store everything we need there.

What’s in our entryway

As we live in a compact apartment, every item counts. Here is everything we store in our entryway as a family with a 3-year-old toddler and a small dog:

In the shoe cabinet:

• 16 pairs of adult shoes (including daily slippers and winter vacation boots)
• 4 pairs of kid shoes, with a space for few extra pairs
• Small plastic chair
• Kid-friendly sunscreen

In the full-length cabinet:

• 4 sling bags and 2 backpacks (belong to my husband)
• Small bag to carry essentials when going out with toddler (for his extra clothes, diapers, etc.)
• Hats
• Stocks of small tissue packs (dry and wet)
• Stocks of mosquito repellents
• Stocks of small hand sanitisers
• Stocks of masks
• Candle supplies
• Fire extinguisher
• Raincoats
• Small vacuum cleaner and duster
• Small mirror

On top of the shoe cabinet:

• Storage to hold daily essentials
• Tray for keys and spare coins

In the DB cabinet:

• Dog’s grooming caddy
• Dog leashes
• Dog clothes
• Other dog-related essentials

On the wall hooks:

• My daily bag
• Kid’s backpack
• Space to hang daily essentials

Our entryway is actually created by slicing off a small portion of our living room, separated by just a partial wall. This means it’s practically part of our main living area. I aim to keep the space functional but also want it to stay organised and visually appealing to avoid any eyesores.

Because of this, we don’t store sports equipment or bulky outdoor gear in our entryway. These items are typically not used every day, so they are kept in their own designated storage elsewhere in the house.

We try not to let ‘just in case’ items accumulate and add unnecessary clutter. When space is a concern, it’s worth curating what’s truly essential and what can be stored elsewhere.

How we create a family-friendly entryway in small space

Here are some of the ideas I’ve implemented to make our compact entryway functional for everyone in the house, including our toddler and dog:

1. Leave some empty space

In our shoe cabinet, we aim to keep enough empty space for at least 2 extra pairs of shoes at all times instead of filling it completely. The same rule applies to my husband’s bags, which are also stored in the entryway. This allows for flexibility if we need extra room.

If we have more shoes or bags than the storage allows, we’ll get rid of the old ones or those we rarely wear. This might sound silly for an already space-short room, but this minimalist mindset encourages us to be intentional with our purchases and mindful of what we let into our home.

2. Use vertical space

Utilising vertical space is a great way to keep items off the floor and within easy reach.

I installed two wall-mounted hooks: one at adult height for my daily bags, which I often use for dog walks and grocery runs, and another at my toddler’s height.

The lower hook makes it simple and accessible for l my toddler to hang up their own things easily. This way, the entryway stays neat and clutter-free.

3. Make essentials reachable for little hands

To make any space kid-friendly, think of ways to make items accessible for children. Arrange things so that what they need is easy to reach and use. This means lowering items you want them to access independently and keeping anything unsafe out of reach.

Besides the lower hooks for bags, we’ve also made small adjustments to help our child learn to be independent with putting on his shoes.

Our shoe cabinet doors are seamless and handle-free. It’s a bit challenging for my 3-year-old to open since the cabinet is also quite tall for his current height. For now, we’ve added small plastic handles that he can easily hold to open the doors.

Our kid’s daily shoes are stored at a low level on the back of the door to save space. The left side is for slippers or open shoes and the right side is for covered shoes. This separation makes it easy for him to remember where to take or put them back.

I also hang a small, foldable plastic chair on the back of the door. It helps him sit while putting on his shoes. I keep a bottle of sunscreen there too to maximise space.

This cabinet door setup is simple but makes the space more toddler-friendly and encourages independence. It lets him open the door, see his footwear options, take out what he wants, and wear it with minimal help.

4. Create a designated spot for everything

Things can easily get messy if they don’t have a designated ‘home’ after use. No matter how insignificant some items may seem, find a specific spot to store them once you’re home.

In my entryway, I make sure to have enough storage containers to hold everything we need. This makes it easy for us to grab what we need before heading out.

This also includes making space for our dog’s items, like his daily leash, grooming supplies, and other essentials. We keep all the dog-related items in our DB cabinet.

Having a specific spot for each item encourages everyone to keep the entryway organised, which also helps kids learn about tidiness.

5. Keep it simple

When organising our entryway, I focused on keeping the decor simple. I chose a few key items, such as a small plant and a simple art piece to add a touch of warmth without creating clutter.

A clean and minimal aesthetic makes the space feel more spacious and allows the family to move around easily. Plus, cleaning is simpler when there aren’t too many items on display.

6. Declutter regularly

I make it a habit to regularly declutter the entryway. Every 3 months, I review what we have and remove anything that no longer serves a purpose.

This helps prevent unnecessary clutter from accumulating and keeps the space functional. I also try to involve my toddler in this process to instill the valuable skill of decluttering.

When the entryway is tidy, it encourages everyone to keep it that way.

The entryway is the first area we see when we come through the door. It plays an essential role in our daily routines.

A good entryway should be functional, easy to navigate, and enable everyone in the family to grab their items before heading out the door without much hassle.

With a few adjustments and some effort, the entryway can become a functional and visually appealing part of our home.

When it comes to toys, less can truly be more. As a minimalist mama, I’ve learned that it’s not the quantity of toys that matters most, but the variety and stimulation they offer.

The Cons of Having Too Many Toys

A well-curated selection of toys can foster an engaging and organised play environment that allows children to focus and develop their creativity and organisational skills.

On the other side, having too many toys can lead to several downsides, including:

1. Overstimulation: An abundance of toys can overwhelm a child, making it difficult for them to focus on or enjoy any single toy. This can lead to shorter attention spans and decreased playtime quality.
2. Clutter and Disorganisation: Excess toys can clutter play areas, leading to a chaotic environment that may hinder a child’s ability to engage in creative play and can cause stress for parents managing the space.
3. Reduced Appreciation: When children have too many toys, they may not fully appreciate or value each one. This can diminish their sense of attachment and make playtime less meaningful.
4. Difficulty in Choosing: With too many options, children might struggle to make decisions about what to play with, which can lead to indecision and frustration.
5. Increased Maintenance: More toys mean more cleaning and organising. This can be a significant task for parents and detracts from quality family time.
6. Less Imaginative Play: Excessive toys can limit a child’s creativity, as they may rely on pre-made toys rather than inventing their own games and scenarios.

The Right Number of Toys for Each Age Group

So, how many toys is too many?

Refer to this guide to help you strike the right balance of toy counts based on your child’s developmental stage without cluttering the space.

The toy quantities mentioned here are recommendations for how many toys a child should play with at a time to ensure optimal play and avoid overwhelming them.

If you have a larger home that can house more toys, consider keeping them in separate rooms so that your child only has access to a manageable number at a time. The exception is when they are older or can clearly communicate their preferences; in such cases, try to respect their wishes.

Infants (0-12 months)

For newborns, sensory toys are essential for stimulating their developing senses. In the early months, focus on items like rattles, soft plush toys, and high-contrast objects that engage their sight and sound. By around 6 months, as your baby begins to reach, grasp, and teeth, introduce toys that support these new skills. Here’s a simple guide to keep in mind:

• Sensory Toys: Rattles, soft fabric books, and toys with different textures.
• Motor Skill Toys: Toys that encourage reaching and grasping, such as soft balls or teething rings.
• Teething Toys: Safe, chewable items designed to soothe gums and support teething.

Aim for 5-6 toys in these categories to offer a range of sensory experiences without overwhelming your baby.

Toddlers (1-3 years)

As toddlers grow, they’re busy developing motor skills and language, so it’s essential to choose toys that support these developments and spark their creativity. Consider including:

• Building Blocks: These help with fine motor skills and understanding shapes and sizes.
• Simple Puzzles: Puzzles that are easy to handle promote problem-solving and hand-eye coordination.
• Interactive Books: Books with flaps, textures, or sounds can boost their language skills and interest in reading.
• Open-Ended Toys: Toys like playdough, magnetic tiles, art supplies, and dress-up clothes encourage imaginative play and creativity.

A mix of 7-8 toys that promote these skills is ideal. Balance between durable toys and those that provide a bit of a challenge to keep your toddler engaged and promote learning.

Preschoolers (3-5 years)

Preschoolers thrive on toys that foster creativity, problem-solving, and social interaction. At this age, it’s great to provide options that encourage imaginative play and skill development. You can offer the following:

• Art Supplies: Items like crayons, markers, and playdough to inspire their artistic side.
• Dress-Up Clothes: Costumes and accessories for role-playing and imaginative adventures.
• Educational Games: Puzzles, memory games, and interactive books to challenge their minds and foster learning.

Having 10-12 toys in these categories provides a diverse range that can grow with their changing interests and abilities. This selection helps make playtime both fun and educational.

Early School Age (6-8 years)

As children enter school, they benefit from toys that blend learning with physical activity. At this age, it’s important to include items that cater to both their academic growth and physical development. You can include these options:

• Science Kits: Engaging kits that explore basic science concepts and experiments.
• Sports Equipment: Gear for activities like soccer, basketball, or biking to encourage physical activity.
• Strategy Games: Board games and puzzles that challenge their thinking and promote problem-solving skill.

About 12-15 toys in these categories should be enough, providing a mix of opportunities for both solo and group play. This variety supports their developing skills and keeps them engaged in a balanced way.

Pre-Teens (9-12 years)

As children approach their pre-teen years, their interests and skills become more focused. At this stage, it’s beneficial to provide toys and activities that align with their hobbies and social needs. Things that may engage them:

• Advanced Craft Kits: Kits that support creative projects and personal expression.
• Sports Gear: Equipment for their favourite sports or physical activities.
• Science Experiments: Kits and tools for exploring more complex scientific concepts.
• Strategy-Based Games: Games that challenge their problem-solving and strategic thinking skills.

Around 15-20 toys or tools in these categories will offer a good balance, supporting their developing interests and encouraging both independent and collaborative activities. This selection helps promote critical thinking, teamwork, and creativity.

Teenagers (13-18 years)

As teenagers develop, their focus moves towards personal interests and practical tools that reflect their growing independence. At this stage, prioritise items that cater to their specific hobbies and future goals. Consider:

• Tech Gadgets: Items like headphones, smartwatches, or tablets that align with their interests.
• Creative Supplies: Tools for hobbies such as drawing, music, or digital design.
• Sports Equipment: Gear for their favourite sports or fitness activities.
• Hobby-Related Items: Supplies or equipment for activities they are passionate about, such as coding kits or crafting tools.

A well-curated selection of about 10-15 items will offer a balanced range of stimulation and support their unique interests and developmental needs, respecting their growing independence while providing meaningful engagement.

Knowing When to Add or Reduce Toys

Here are some signs that your child might need more toys or that their current toys might not be sufficient:

Signs They Need More Toys:

1. Boredom: If your child frequently complains about being bored or shows little interest in their existing toys, it might be a sign they need more variety to stimulate their imagination and engagement.
2. Repetitive Play: If your child is overly fixated on just a few toys and seems disinterested in others, they might benefit from new toys that offer different kinds of play.
3. Social Interaction: If your child struggles to play with others or seems to lack appropriate toys for group activities, adding toys that encourage cooperative play can be beneficial.
4. Developmental Needs: If your child is reaching new developmental milestones and their current toys no longer challenge or support those skills, it may be time to introduce new, age-appropriate toys.

Signs They Have Too Many Toys:

1. Overwhelmed by Choices: If your child seems overwhelmed when choosing a toy or frequently abandons toys in favour of another, they might have too many options, making it hard to focus on any one toy.
2. Cluttered Play Area: If their play area is consistently disorganised and cluttered despite your best efforts to tidy up, it could be a sign that there are too many toys.
3. Loss of Interest: If your child has a large number of toys but often says they don’t know what to play with, it might be an indication that the sheer volume of toys is making it difficult for them to engage with any one item.
4. Difficulty in Finding Toys: If it’s challenging for your child to locate their toys or if they regularly misplace them, the excess toys could be contributing to this problem.

Monitoring these signs can help you strike the right balance between providing enough variety to keep your child engaged and avoiding the pitfalls of too many toys.

Balancing Quantity and Quality

This guide provides general recommendations for the right number of toys based on age groups, but it’s important to remember that these are not strict rules.

Each child is unique, and their toy needs can vary based on individual interests, developmental stages, and family circumstances. What works well for one child might not be ideal for another.

It’s essential to adjust the number and types of toys according to your child’s specific needs and preferences, ensuring a balanced and engaging play environment tailored to their growth and development.

Remember, while having a few toys in each category is helpful, it’s more important to focus on how each toy engages your child’s senses and encourages development. Rotate toys periodically to keep the play experience fresh and exciting. The goal is not to clutter their space but to provide a stimulating environment that grows with them.

Recently, we decided to give our home office/study room a little makeover. Now that we are parents, our goal is to make this room a space that the entire family can use, not just us adults.

On days when we work from home, we wanted to involve our little one by allowing him to stay close while engaging in his own activities.

To achieve this, we thought that building him a small study corner somewhere in the room would be great. This corner would enable him to draw, build LEGO, look at picture books, or play independently while we work.

However, with limited space in our small home, we needed to find a creative solution that not only maximises our space effectively but also looks good, is suitable for a small child, and can grow with him.

IKEA BOAXEL Hack: Turning a Wall-Mounted Storage System into a Kids’ Desk

The product we’re using today is the IKEA BOAXEL. While BOAXEL is commonly used for wall-mounted storage and wardrobe organisation, it also provides a fantastic solution for creating a space-saving study nook that can evolve with your child.

The BOAXEL system features easy-to-click-on and remove interiors that allow you to customise, change, and rearrange your setup as needed. This flexibility makes it an excellent choice for a children’s desk, as you can adjust the height to accommodate their growing bodies.

Why Choose IKEA Boaxel?

With its smart design and flexibility, the BOAXEL system is an excellent choice for creating a makeshift study corner for these following reasons:

1. Space-Saving Design: The BOAXEL system is designed to be mounted on the wall, so it doesn’t take up valuable floor space. This makes it ideal for creating a compact study nook in a small area.

2. Adjustable Heights: One of the standout features of the BOAXEL system is its adjustable shelves. As your child grows, you can easily reposition the shelves to accommodate their height.

3. Simple and Stylish: The BOAXEL shelf is available in white or oak effect, both of which are stylish options that complement any interior. I especially appreciate the simple yet elegant design that offers a chic look and enhances your room’s decor without overpowering it.

4. Compact Yet Versatile: The BOAXEL system’s slim profile fits snugly into corners, making it perfect for smaller rooms where space is limited. Despite its compact size, it provides enough surface area for workspace and storage for kids.

If you have more than one child or need more length, you can simply add additional shelves to extend the system or add shelves above to create a vertical storage for their growing study needs—from early learning materials to more advanced study aids.

In addition to shelves, the BOAXEL system also offers mesh baskets that can be used as drawers. It provides a versatile storage solution to suit your needs and preferences.

How to Build DIY Study Corner with IKEA BOAXEL

Here’s how we transform the IKEA BOAXEL system into a compact yet functional study corner for our child:

Gather the Tools and Materials

You’ll need IKEA BOAXEL system, including shelves, brackets, and wall uprights.

BOAXEL shelves come in two sizes: 80×40 cm and 60×40 cm, both of which are ideal for kids. For our child, we chose the 80×40 cm size, which fits perfectly in the space between the wall and the bookcase in our home office.

It’s worth noting that IKEA also offers 20-30 cm adjustable shelves that can be combined with other BOAXEL units, allowing you to further utilise the space.

The wall uprights, which form the base of BOAXEL wall-mounted system, are also available in two height options: 100 cm and 200 cm. We used the 100 cm uprights, but if you plan to add more shelves for additional storage above, you might prefer the taller 200 cm option for more flexibility.

Purchase enough units based on the length you want for the desk and the number of personalised storage shelves you’ll need. For our setup, here’s what we bought:

• 1 x BOAXEL shelf, 80×40 cm, oak effect
• 2 x BOAXEL wall upright, 100 cm
• 2 x BOAXEL bracket

You’ll also need tools and supplies to install the system, such as a drill, wall anchors, screws, and a screwdriver.

Assemble the IKEA BOAXEL System

Plan Your Layout: Decide where you want to install the BOAXEL system. Measure the space to ensure it fits comfortably in the chosen corner.

Install the Wall Uprights: Follow the IKEA assembly instructions to install the wall uprights. Ensure they are level and securely anchored to the wall. To make installation easier, you can use the BOAXEL mounting rail, which helps keep the uprights straight and correctly positioned on the wall.

Add Shelves: Once the uprights are in place, attach the brackets at the desired height and then add the shelves. Position them at a height that’s comfortable for your child. Don’t worry if you need to adjust them later—you can simply pull the brackets up to reposition the shelves.

DONE! Now all you need is a comfortable chair that fits the space, and your BOAXEL system is ready to serve as a desk for your kids.

Personalise Your IKEA BOAXEL as It Grows with Your Child

The beauty of the BOAXEL system lies in its adaptability. As your child’s needs change, you can easily adjust the height of the shelves or rearrange the layout to accommodate new items or interests.

For example, as they advance in school, you can add more shelves above to make room for storing school supplies, books, and art materials.

You can also incorporate additional organisers, bins, pegboards, or hooks to keep supplies neatly arranged and accessible.

Let your child personalise their study corner with their favourite colours, artwork, and accessories. This will make the space inviting and encourage them to spend more time there.

If you set up this system in a home office like ours, your kids can use it for drawing, working on projects, playing, or even pretending to work just like you while you’re at your own desk nearby.

The Space-Saving Study Corner

The IKEA BOAXEL system is a versatile solution for creating a study space that grows with your child. It adapts to their changing needs and helps them stay organised from their early years through their school journey.

This DIY IKEA hack project not only makes efficient use of your space but also creates a functional and stylish study area that your child will love.

Why You Can’t Seem to Finish Cleaning and Organising and How to Solve It

Struggling with cleaning and organising your home can be frustrating, but understanding the reasons behind it can help you find solutions. Here are some common obstacles and practical examples to help you tackle them:

1. Overwhelm

The task feels too big to tackle all at once.

You might feel daunted by the thought of cleaning the entire house in one go. The sheer scale of the task can make it feel impossible to tackle all at once. It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the thought of sorting through everything.

• Example: The thought of decluttering the entire wardrobe can seem too much to handle.
• Solution: Break the task into smaller, manageable chunks. Start with one corner or one drawer at a time.

2. Lack of Motivation

You’re just not motivated to start or continue.

Sometimes, you just don’t have the drive to start or keep going. Without motivation, even the smallest tasks can seem monumental.

• Example: You keep putting off tidying the living room because you’re not in the mood.
• Solution: Set a timer for 10 minutes and focus on cleaning during that time. Often, getting started is the hardest part, and once you begin, you may find it easier to continue beyond the initial 10 minutes.

3. Perfectionism

You’re waiting for the perfect time or conditions to start.

Waiting for the perfect time, mood, or conditions can stall your progress. Sometimes, you need to accept that “good enough” is better than perfect.

• Example: You’re waiting for a day when you have uninterrupted time to clean the bathroom.
• Solution: Accept that it’s okay to make progress in small steps. You don’t need perfect conditions to start.

4. Distractions

You’re easily sidetracked by other activities or tasks.

Other activities or tasks can pull you away from cleaning. A quick check of your phone or a call from a friend can derail your efforts.

• Example: You plan to clean the windows but end up browsing social media instead.
• Solution: Put your phone in another room, turn off notifications, or schedule a dedicated time for cleaning when you can eliminate distractions.

5. Procrastination

You keep putting off the task for later.

Putting off the task for later might feel like a small delay, but it often results in a never-ending cycle of delays.

• Example: You keep postponing sorting through old papers and end up with a growing pile.
• Solution: Use a planner to schedule specific times for cleaning and stick to it, treating it like an important appointment.

6. Lack of Time

You have a busy schedule and can’t find time.

With a busy schedule, finding time for cleaning and organising can be challenging. Other priorities can take precedence over tidying up.

• Example: Your work and family commitments leave you with little free time.
• Solution: Allocate small, specific time slots for cleaning tasks, like 15 minutes before bed or during a lunch break.

7. No Clear Plan

You don’t have a structured plan or system in place.

Without a structured plan or system, it’s hard to know where to start or how to continue. A vague approach often leads to inaction.

• Example: You want to organise the kitchen but aren’t sure if you should sort equipments first or clean the shelves.
• Solution: Create a step-by-step plan and list the tasks in order of priority. Having a roadmap can guide you through the process.

8. Unrealistic Goals

Your goals are too ambitious or impractical.

Setting overly ambitious or impractical goals can be discouraging. Breaking tasks into manageable steps can make a big difference.

• Example: You aim to completely redecorate the entire house in a day.
• Solution: Set realistic, achievable goals, such as organising one room or area per week.

9. Indecision:

You struggle with making decisions about what to keep or discard.

Struggling with what to keep or discard can cause paralysis. The process of decision-making can be exhausting and slow.

• Example: You hesitate over whether to keep old clothes that no longer fit.
• Solution: Use a decision-making framework, like the “keep, donate, discard” method, to make choices more straightforward.

10. Feeling Burdened by Clutter

Too much clutter makes it hard to know where to start.

Too much clutter can make it difficult to figure out where to begin. The mess itself can be overwhelming.

• Example: A playroom full of toys makes it difficult to know where to begin.
• Solution: Start by clearing one small area or surface to create some immediate, visible progress and reduce the feeling of overwhelm.

11. Physical or Mental Fatigue

You’re too tired or stressed to put in the effort.

If you’re tired or stressed, it’s hard to muster the energy needed for cleaning and organising. Fatigue can be a significant barrier.

• Example: You’re too exhausted after work to tackle the laundry.
• Solution: Schedule cleaning for when you have more energy or break tasks into shorter sessions to avoid burnout.

12. Lack of Skills or Knowledge

You don’t know the best methods or techniques.

Not knowing the best methods or techniques for organising can make the task seem more daunting. A little research can help.

• Example: You’re unsure of the best way to organise your entryway.
• Solution: Look up tips and tutorials online or ask for advice from friends who are experienced in organising.

13. Emotional Attachment

Difficulty letting go of sentimental items.

Letting go of sentimental items can be incredibly tough. Emotional connections to belongings can slow down the decluttering process.

• Example: You struggle to part with old gifts from friends or family.
• Solution: Keep a few meaningful items and consider taking photos of the rest before letting them go.

14. Inconsistent Routine

You don’t have a regular cleaning and organising routine.

Without a regular cleaning and organising routine, it’s easy to let things slide. Consistency helps maintain order over time.

• Example: You clean only when the house gets too messy.
• Solution: Establish a consistent cleaning schedule, such as a quick tidy-up each day and a more thorough clean each week.

15. Overcommitment

You have too many other commitments or responsibilities.

Balancing too many commitments or responsibilities can leave little time or energy for home organisation. Prioritising can help manage this.

• Example: Juggling work, family, and social commitments leaves no time for home organisation.
• Solution: Prioritise your tasks and consider delegating some responsibilities or finding small pockets of time for cleaning.

16. Lack of Support

You’re doing it alone and could use help or encouragement.

Doing it alone can be challenging. Having help or encouragement from others can make the task more manageable and less lonely.

• Example: You’re trying to organise the whole house by yourself.
• Solution: Enlist the help of family or friends. Tackling tasks together can make them more manageable and enjoyable.

17. No Immediate Results

You don’t see quick results, so you lose motivation.

Not seeing quick progress can be demotivating. Celebrate small victories to keep yourself motivated.

• Example: You’ve spent hours cleaning the pantry but it still looks cluttered.
• Solution: Focus on smaller, incremental achievements and reward yourself for each completed task to stay motivated.

18. Unclear Priorities

Other tasks or goals seem more urgent or important.

Other tasks or goals might seem more pressing. When cleaning and organising isn’t a top priority, it often gets pushed aside.

• Example: Work deadlines and family events overshadow cleaning duties.
• Solution: Reassess your priorities and set aside dedicated time for cleaning, recognising its importance for your overall well-being.

19. Inadequate Storage Solutions

You don’t have effective storage options.

Without effective storage options, it’s hard to find a place for everything. Investing in good storage solutions can make a big difference.

• Example: Your current storage solutions don’t accommodate all your belongings efficiently.
• Solution: Invest in better storage solutions, such as shelving or organisers, to create more space and improve accessibility.

20. Disorganisation

A lack of organisation in your cleaning approach makes it hard to follow through.

A lack of organisation in your cleaning approach can make it hard to follow through. Developing a clear strategy can help streamline the process.

• Example: You start cleaning the bedroom, then get distracted by mess in the kitchen.
• Solution: Develop a systematic approach, tackling one area at a time and using a checklist to stay organised and focused.

Identify Your Challenges and Seek Solutions

If you find yourself struggling with any of these issues, remember that it’s okay to start small and take one step at a time. Sometimes, the key to success is simply finding a way to get started and keeping momentum going. Be patient with yourself and celebrate small victories along the way.

With this multipurpose DIY project, you can have it all and customise it any way you like to suit your child’s imagination.

Looking for a fun and creative project to do with your kids? Look no further! With just a few simple supplies, you can transform an ordinary cardboard box into a delightful toy shop that can be converted into a puppet theatre stage in seconds.

This versatile DIY project provides hours of imaginative play and brings endless joy to children and parents alike.

One project, endless possibilities

My soon-to-be 3-year-old son loves imaginative pretend play. Watching him transform into a chef, sell ice cream, play doctor, or narrate stories while engaging with his toy cars and plushies is one of the most blissful experiences for me as a mother.

Given his enthusiasm, providing a little setup where he can freely use it however he wants seems like the perfect idea. It allows him to explore his creativity and imagination in a space that’s all his own.

But we all know how expensive those pretend toy supermarkets or puppet theater stages can be. Most of them are designed for only one specific purpose, and the cheaper options are often poorly made. Not to mention, they are usually bulky and take up space. Living in a small apartment, we simply cannot afford to dedicate a large area for just one type of play equipment.

Instead, we’ve decided to build a multifunctional and adaptable play prop that provides a stimulating environment for him to explore and enjoy, all while saving space.

The best thing about this project is that it’s not limited to just one type of pretend play. It’s reversible, with each side designed to accommodate different kinds of imaginative play: one side resembles a stall that can serve as a shop or café, while the other side functions as a stage for various performances like puppet shows and magic acts.

This project is suitable for kids from age 3 who have started to enjoy pretend play, but older children will benefit from it as well, as it can be adapted to suit almost any imagination.

So, if you happen to have some old cardboard lying around in the house, why not turn it into something magical that your kids will absolutely love and enjoy? I promise it will be easy and fun. Let’s get crafting!

DIY Reversible Cardboard Toy Shop slash Puppet Theatre Stage

Materials and Supplies

• Cardboard box

The first and most important thing you’ll need for this project is a large cardboard box. It should be big enough to allow your child to be comfortably hidden behind it, whether they are standing up or sitting down.

The cardboard box I used was from the IKEA packaging for a new office chair I recently purchased. It’s not as large as a fridge or washing machine box, but it’s just the right size for my son’s needs.

Besides the cardboard, you’ll also need:

• A pencil and ruler for markings
• Scissors or a cutter
• Hot glue
• Clear or masking tape
• Markers or paints (poster or acrylic paints work best)
• Fabric
• One extendable pole and two wall hooks
• Portable light (optional)

How to Make

Stand your box upright and open one side of the cardboard box. Remove the flaps on the top and bottom, but leave the left and right flaps intact.

It will work best if your cardboard shape is somewhat similar to mine—narrow and with a larger opening. If you’re using a thicker box, such as one from a refrigerator, the final product will be thicker as well.

Use one of the flaps you removed to create the awning. To achieve clean, rounded edges, I used tape as a guide to mark the shape. This makes it easier to achieve the classic striped appearance of an awning.

Cut a rectangular hole on the other side of the box to create the frame. With the remaining cardboard, measure and cut pieces to make the shelves for the shop.

I lightly scored the awning piece with a cutter to create a line without fully cutting through. This allows me to fold the piece while maintaining a slightly tilted angle for that traditional awning look.

I used Velcro tape to attach the awning to the top part of the shop, but you can use hot glue instead. I initially chose Velcro because I wanted to be able to remove the awning in case it got in the way when the setup was used as a theater stage. I later realized that the awning actually added charming detail, so using Velcro wasn’t necessary.

Using hot glue, attach the shelving pieces so that the left and right flaps remain open, and you’ll have racks to display whatever the kids are selling in their tiny stall!

I also added a “table” using the remaining cardboard so my son can place his cash register or other items on it.

The shop part is now ready. You’ll just need to add a few more things to make it double as a theatre stage.

The next step is to add the extendable pole, which can be adjusted in length to fit perfectly and be easily removed when needed. Place it inside the box and position it high behind the frame, making sure the pole is not visible from the front.

Since we’re working with cardboard, you should rest both ends of the pole on wall hooks to secure it and prevent it from falling or distorting the cardboard.

Measure and cut two pieces of fabric to create the drape or curtain for the theatre, making sure they are similar in size. Fold the top part of each piece and glue or sew it to create a hole for the pole to pass through. I sewed the edges of my fabric to prevent fraying, but this step is optional.

Using the leftover cardboard, create the roof of the stage as shown in the picture above.

I used masking tape on the back of the roof piece to hold the sides in place, allowing them to bend at a 90° angle.

I also used hot glue on the front side to reinforce it and then attached this roof to the top part of the main body.

I used Velcro again because I didn’t know better at the time, but you can simply use hot glue to attach it directly to the main body.

The picture above shows how it looks with the curtains drawn shut.

And here it is with the curtains open. I simply tied strings to keep them in place.

Now the theater side is almost complete. It just needs some styling and finishing touches.

Fun Little Details

From here on, the instructions will focus on adding details and customising the design to make it look good and suit your preferences.

To make the stage look more dramatic, I added a portable light that can be turned on and off with a single touch, making it easy for a toddler to operate. The light is also magnetic, so it can be removed for charging.

And finally, the most fun part: decorating!

Use markers, paints, or colorful papers to style your cute little stall and theater box and make it truly yours. You can keep it simple or go all out with the design.

I made each side of mine look completely different using distinct color schemes and theme to create a refreshing and varied alternative.

I designed the shop side in monochromatic black and white, with a touch of a simple grid pattern. I also added a small magnetic blackboard that can be used to display signs, such as for today’s menu or quirky little shop notices. It gives the shop a trendy and modern look, don’t you think?

In contrast, the stage side is more vibrant, with a colorful palette and playful shapes to create a bright and happy carnival or circus atmosphere.

I used brown kraft paper bags as storage baskets and placed them on the racks, which can be used in two ways. When the shop side is open for business, they serve as display baskets for groceries or other products for sale.

Then, when it’s time for a performance, they become handy baskets for holding puppets, props, or anything else needed for the show.

Have a Great Playtime!

My son totally adores his new pretend play prop and has been eagerly waiting since I told him we were making a new toy for him. Now that it’s finished, he can’t stop playing with it.

Transforming simple materials into something creative for our son has always been a rewarding experience for us. Watching his excitement as he explores his new play prop made every step worthwhile.

I hope you enjoyed this DIY project as much as we did. May it inspire you to create your own unique projects and bring a little extra joy into your home.

There are many ways to approach decluttering, but one Japanese philosophy, danshari, stands out with its unique approach to creating a balanced and organised home. Coined by author Hideko Yamashita in her 2009 book, Danshari: Shin Katazukejutsu, danshari goes beyond simple tidying. The concept of danshari is not only about clearing spaces but also about building a better relationship with your belongings.

What is Danshari?

Danshari (断捨離) is a Japanese neologism referring to a form of systematic decluttering and optimisation of the things in a home. The term was introduced to differentiate between minimalists who aim to minimise their belongings and those who seek to optimise their possessions.

The term is composed of three Japanese characters: dan (断), sha (捨), and ri (離). Each of these characters represents a fundamental aspect of the practice:

Dan (断) – To refuse.

It’s about stopping the accumulation of things you don’t need. It involves resisting the urge to keep or bring unnecessary items into our homes, whether we come across them or they are offered to us. It encourages us to be mindful of our consumption and to say no to things that don’t add value to our lives.

Example: You’re going through your closet and find several items of clothing you haven’t worn in years. The dan (断) step involves deciding not to keep these items. Instead of holding onto them because you might wear them someday, you make a conscious choice to let them go.

Sha (捨) – To dispose.

It encourages us to dispose and let go of unnecessary or unused things. It’s a process of freeing ourselves from the burden of excess and things that no longer serve a purpose.

Example: After deciding which clothes you no longer need in the previous step, the sha (捨) step involves physically removing them from your space. This means placing these items in a donation bag, recycling bin, or trash. It’s about taking action to clear out the things you’ve determined are no longer useful or meaningful.

Ri (離) – To separate.

This is where we release ourselves from attachment to unnecessary possessions and desires.

Example: As you sort through your items, you come across an old baby clothes that you keep even though it hasn’t been worn in years. This clothes might hold sentimental value or remind you of past experiences, making it difficult to part with. The ri (離) step helps you realise that the baby clothes’ value is no longer aligned with your current needs or lifestyle. This process of separation helps you focus on what truly matters to you now, rather than being weighed down by the past.

In essence, the practice of danshari involves refusing unnecessary possessions, disposing what’s no longer needed, and separating yourself from emotional attachments to items.

The concept of Danshari was inspired by Hideko Yamashita’s reflections on her mother’s habit of collecting things and constantly buying storage furniture to fit more items. Yamashita wondered why the solution wasn’t to reduce the number of items instead. She noticed that most decluttering books focused on storage solutions rather than on what and how to discard unneeded items. She also observed that people often feared getting rid of their possessions. Using her background in yoga, Yamashita developed methods to help overcome this fear, similar to techniques used in behavioural therapy.

How to Embrace Danshari

1. Assess Your Space

Start by taking a good look at your home. Identify areas that feel cluttered or overwhelming. Make a list of these spaces to tackle one by one.

2. Sort and Prioritise

Go through your belongings and categorize them. Determine which items are essential, which bring you joy, and which are simply taking up space. Be honest with yourself about what you truly need.

3. Declutter Mindfully

As you begin to let go of items, do so with intention. Thank each item for its service and release it without guilt. Consider donating or recycling to minimize waste.

4. Organise Efficiently

Arrange the remaining items in a way that maximizes their utility and accessibility. Use storage solutions that suit your lifestyle and maintain a clean, clutter-free environment.

5. Maintain the Balance

Danshari is an ongoing practice. Regularly review your possessions and make adjustments as needed. Stay mindful of new items entering your home and ensure they align with your values and needs.

The Benefits of Danshari

Practicing danshari is said to broaden one’s perspective, encourage self-improvement, and create a simpler, more comfortable life. Beyond just home organisation, the concept of danshari can also be applied to work and relationships. Not only does it make your room neater, but practicing danshari also offers these amazing benefits:

Better Use of Time

Decluttering reduces the number of items you have and keeps your space organised, so you spend less time searching for things. With fewer clothes, shoes, and bags, you’ll also spend less time deciding what to wear. The time you save can be used for other activities.

Save Money

Danshari encourages you to get rid of unnecessary items and focus on what you truly need. This helps you avoid buying things you don’t need, leading to better savings.

Improved Energy and Mood

An organised space helps improve the flow of energy. A tidy room can boost your self-esteem and self-image, positively affecting your relationships and work life.

Danshari vs. Minimalism

At first glance, danshari might seem like just another form of minimalism. But unlike minimalism, which emphasises on living with bare essentials, danshari carries a much deeper sense. It involves examining the current connection you have between you and your possessions, rather than focusing on past or future associations.

While minimalism focuses on having fewer items, danshari focuses on optimising what we already have. It’s not about reducing our belongings to the absolute minimum, but rather about curating our possessions thoughtfully. The idea is to strike a balance between functionality and joy, making sure that every item in our home has a meaningful place.

If you find yourself holding onto items because it’s difficult to discard them—whether due to their price or the burden they represent—you’re focusing on the items themselves rather than on your needs. According to Hideko Yamashita, the true essence of danshari is not just about decluttering your space but also about gaining a deeper understanding of yourself. The key question to ask is whether the relationship between you and an item still exists. If an object holds neither physical nor emotional value to you, it’s time to let it go.

Our world is overwhelmed by excess possessions, but danshari offers a refreshing path away from materialism by helping us focus on what truly matters. It’s not about obsessively counting and discarding what we have; instead, the danshari movement encourages us to have a balanced lifestyle and mindful consumption.

It has been six years since we last painted our 4-room HDB flat, which we moved into back in 2018. This year, we decided it was time to refresh our home and give it a fresh look.

Choosing Nippon Paint: Why We Made the Decision

When we decided it was time to give our flat a fresh coat of paint, choosing the right paint and painters was an important decision for us. After all, as busy parents with full-time jobs, a toddler, and a dog to look after, we needed a hassle-free experience that would not only deliver a beautiful result but also can accommodate to our family’s daily routine.

After much research and deliberation, we decided to engage Nippon Paint. Just to let you know, this post is not sponsored. We engaged Nippon Paint and paid for the services ourselves. The reviews and opinions expressed here are entirely our own and reflect our honest thoughts.

Engaging professional painting services over a freelancer was our first choice because, given our circumstances—having a toddler, a dog, and limited days to work from home—we needed a reliable, efficient solution. While we certainly appreciate the flexibility and often lower cost of freelancers, we felt that a professional service offered the expertise and dependability we needed for a smooth and hassle-free experience. Of course, freelancers can be a great option for others depending on their specific needs and situations.

Our decision to go with Nippon Paint was driven by a few reasons. Firstly, their reputation for high-quality products and excellent customer service stood out. Nippon Paint has been a trusted name in the industry for years, known for its innovative paint solutions and wide range of colours.

We also appreciated their commitment to eco-friendly products. Nippon Paint’s low-VOC (volatile organic compounds) options were important to us, as we wanted to ensure a healthier indoor environment for our family. Additionally, their comprehensive service offering, including free consultations and professional advice, made the decision easier.

The Painting Process: What to Expect

The process of repainting our flat with Nippon Paint was smooth and straightforward. It began with a consultation where a representative from Nippon Paint visited our home. She conducted a wallcare assessment to evaluate the condition of our walls and discussed our vision for the space. We were provided with various options and a catalogue to help us make an informed choice. At this point, we made a down payment to secure the work.

Once we decided on the colours and type of paint, the next step was scheduling the work. Nippon Paint’s team was prompt and professional throughout the entire process. They only asked us to secure our valuables in case anything was dropped or broken, but apart from that, they took care of moving and replacing the bulky furniture once the job was done.

The work started at 8 AM and ended at 5 PM, with an hour-long lunch break at 12 PM, which was convenient for us. This timing allowed us to drop our toddler off at preschool and pick him up afterward, so he wasn’t around during the painting.

The entire painting process took two days and covered our whole 4-room flat, including the ceiling. This included the living area (living and dining rooms), kitchen, one main bedroom, one kid’s bedroom, one study room, two bathrooms, the laundry yard, the bomb shelter (store room), five door frames, and the pipe in the laundry yard.

On the first day, they painted the walls and ceilings of all our bedrooms, the office/study room, and all the bathrooms. They completed the remaining tasks on the following day.

They started by covering our floors, doors, windows, and furniture to prevent the paint from getting on them. They also removed our curtain and blinds. Next, they sanded and primed the surfaces where necessary. They applied two coats of paint, and the job was completed in a timely manner with impressive attention to detail.

We also appreciated their clean-up service, as they put the furniture back and did minor sweeping and tidying up each day before leaving.

Colour Choices: Finding the Perfect Palette

Choosing the right colour was one of the most exciting parts of the project. Since we prefer a neutral and bright atmosphere, we decided on a shade similar to our old one but with a softer, calmer tint. We’re happy that Nippon Paint was able to deliver the exact look we had in mind.

All the walls were painted in the same shade, “Swansdown,” except for the home office, where we chose “Birch Patina,” a slightly richer colour. For the door frames, we used “Sahara,” which has a deeper tone to provide a nice, subtle contrast with the walls.

In our case, there weren’t many options for the ceiling, as they only offered white, which was also the case for the laundry pipe. This was fine for us, as we would have chosen a white tone regardless.

The Takeaway: Impressions and Results

After engaging Nippon Paint, we were genuinely impressed with the overall experience. From start to finish, the process was smooth and professional. The team’s attention to detail and expertise were evident in the final result.

Our flat now looks refreshed and brighter, with the colours perfectly matching our vision. The quality of the paint and the meticulous work of the painters have transformed our home into a space that feels both inviting and stylish. We’re thrilled with the outcome and appreciate the seamless experience Nippon Paint provided.

One downside to the painting process, which is common across many services, is the need to rearrange furniture to accommodate the painting process. While Nippon Paint’s team was very helpful by moving heavy furniture and placing it back afterward, we still had to spend some time rearranging items ourselves. Just a heads-up in case you’re considering hiring them and expecting a completely hands-off experience.

Another concern we faced was related to the paint’s odour. Even though we opted for an odourless option, the smell was still quite strong and noticeable, raising concerns about the potential impact on our toddler. The odour only dissipated after around five days of consistently airing out the space by opening the windows. We’re not sure if this duration is typical, but it did require patience on our part.

Additionally, the metal paint used for the door frames had a much stronger smell and dried more slowly. While the wall paint dried within a day, the door frames couldn’t be touched for the first two days. Although these issues were manageable, they did add some inconvenience to the overall experience, they were worth noting as they added some inconvenience to the overall experience (thanks to curious toddler hands and a nosy dog’s nose).

Cost Breakdown: What We Paid For

The total cost for repainting our 4-room flat came to approximately $2,700, with $200 paid at the assessment stage. This price included the cost of paint, labour, and additional services such as surface preparation and clean-up. We felt the cost was reasonable considering the quality of the materials and the level of service provided.

Overall, our experience with Nippon Paint has been very positive. The professionalism of their team, the quality of the paint, and the final result have exceeded our expectations. If you’re considering a repaint for your home, Nippon Paint is definitely worth considering for their expertise and excellent service.

Final Thoughts: Our Takeaway from the Experience

Overall, our experience with Nippon Paint has been very positive. The process was smooth, the team was professional, and the final result has transformed our home beautifully.

While there were a few minor inconveniences, such as the stronger smell of the metal paint and the need for some furniture rearrangement, these were outweighed by the excellent quality and finish of the work.

We’re delighted with how our flat looks and feel confident that Nippon Paint’s expertise made a significant difference. If you’re considering a fresh coat of paint for your home, Nippon Paint is definitely worth considering for their professionalism and high-quality service.

Wabi-sabi has become popular with the growing interest in Japanese home design and trends. However, in modern culture, some things are often mistaken for wabi-sabi, but don’t actually fit the true essence of this philosophy.

Here’s a guide to understanding what wabi-sabi really is and isn’t, with examples to clarify common misconceptions.

What Exactly is Wabi-Sabi?

Wabi-sabi (わび・さび) is a Japanese expression referring to an aesthetic concept of perceiving beauty in imperfection, impermanence, and the natural cycle of growth and decay. It embraces simplicity, humility, and authenticity that focus on the transient and imperfect aspects of life.

The term wabi-sabi is composed of “wabi” and “sabi,” which were originally used as separate concepts. “Wabi” refers to a simple, rustic beauty, while “sabi” signifies the beauty that comes with the passage of time and the wear it brings.

One of the notable figures in developing the wabi-sabi concept is Sen no Rikyū. Known as the founder of the Japanese tea ceremony, he emphasised on simplicity over displaying expensive tea bowls. His focus on austere and unadorned beauty played a crucial role in shaping both the tea ceremony and broader Japanese aesthetic values.

The principles of wabi-sabi

Wabi-sabi values a deeper appreciation for the simple, unrefined, and authentic parts of life. It offers an alternative to the pursuit of perfection and the fleeting nature of ever-changing trends or ideals.

Key principles of wabi-sabi include:

• Imperfection: Appreciating the beauty of objects and spaces that are imperfect, irregular, or worn.
• Simplicity: Embracing the uncomplicated and avoiding the unnecessary to allow for a clear appreciation of form and function.
• Authenticity: Valuing the genuine and unique qualities that come from real, unfiltered experiences.
• Transience: Acknowledging and appreciating the beauty in the natural process of aging and change.
• Naturalness: Preferring natural materials and textures that age gracefully and harmonise with their environment.

Example of things that wabi-sabi finds beauty in:

• Aged Objects: Think of a weathered bowl with cracks and fading textures that have developed over decades. This bowl embodies the spirit of wabi-sabi by showcasing the effects of time and use.
• Natural Flaws: A handmade pottery with an uneven glaze or asymmetrical shape that highlights the artisan’s personal touch and the natural process of creation.
• Authenticity: A collection of old, dog-eared books with handwritten notes in the margins that reflects the personal engagement and genuine use over time.

The wabi-sabi philosophy often highlights how wear and tear can add character and depth to objects and experiences. It celebrates the natural process of aging and the uniqueness that comes with it.

Common Misconceptions About Wabi-Sabi

Wabi-sabi is often misunderstood outside of its trendy appeal. Beyond the buzzword, people often misinterpret its true essence, thinking it’s simply about stylish spaces with earthy colour or aesthetically pleasing natural elements.

In reality, wabi-sabi isn’t at all about having the perfect-looking things. It’s about embracing the flaws and appreciating the beauty in the imperfections that come with natural flow of life. Understanding these distinctions helps clarify what wabi-sabi truly represents and how it differs from related concepts and styles.

Here are eight common concepts that are often mistaken for wabi-sabi but are, in fact, distinct in their principles and focus:

1. Modern Minimalism vs. Wabi-Sabi

Modern minimalism, characterised by sleek, clean lines and a lack of clutter, is sometimes confused with wabi-sabi. While modern minimalism often focuses on reducing items to essentials for functionality and practicality, wabi-sabi values the imperfect and the transient, which can include a bit of disorder and an appreciation for life’s imperfections.

Example: A perfectly organised minimalist space may be serene but lacks the character and depth of imperfection that wabi-sabi celebrates.

Difference: While wabi-sabi values simplicity and minimalism, it also emphasises the beauty of imperfection and the natural aging process. Minimalism focuses primarily on reducing clutter and simplifying life without necessarily appreciating imperfections or the passage of time.

2. Shabby Chic vs. Wabi-Sabi

Shabby Chic frequently gets mistaken with wabi-sabi. Shabby chic often features distressed or worn furniture, pastel colours, and floral patterns that aims to create a somewhat romantic atmosphere. It focuses on delicate and aged items that have been lovingly restored or repurposed. Shabby chic emphasises a deliberate vintage look, often with coordinated, slightly worn items that are purposely styled to appear old. In contrast, wabi-sabi embraces organic, unintentional wear and natural aging without a curated aesthetic.

Example: A room full of intentionally distressed furniture with matching vintage accessories might look charming, but it lacks the genuine aging character wabi-sabi celebrates.

Difference: Shabby chic involves intentionally creating a vintage, aged look with a sense of charm. While it embraces some elements of imperfection, wabi-sabi is more about appreciating the true natural, organic decay and impermanence rather than deliberately creating a distressed or antique style.

3. Rustic Decor vs. Wabi-Sabi

Rustic decor shares some similarities with wabi-sabi, but they differ in key ways. Rustic decor is a style that highlights natural, rugged, and traditional elements that often features raw or unfinished materials such as wood, stone, and metal. It creates a warm and earthy atmosphere that reflects a connection to nature and simpler times. On the other hand, wabi-sabi appreciates natural, unintentional wear without deliberate design.

Example: A room furnished with carefully chosen rustic furniture and coordinated accessories may convey a homey and traditional feel, but it lacks the spontaneous, unplanned quality of wabi-sabi.

Difference: Rustic aesthetic may involve using raw, unfinished materials and designs that seem rugged or natural but wabi-sabi specifically values the beauty in imperfection and the passage of time, not just the appearance of roughness.

4. Industrial Design vs. Wabi-Sabi

Industrial design often features raw materials and exposed structures, which might seem wabi-sabi due to their unfinished look. However, industrial design usually has a deliberate, planned aesthetic, whereas wabi-sabi is about appreciating the unintentional and the natural progression of objects over time.

Example: A loft with exposed pipes and concrete floors might look rugged, but if the design is intentional and polished, it misses the essence of wabi-sabi’s authentic, unplanned beauty.

Difference: Industrial design is typically driven by a desire to emulate the aesthetic of industrial processes, while wabi-sabi centers on the beauty found on the genuine, intrinsic character of objects as they age.

5. Scandinavian Style vs. Wabi-Sabi

Originating from the Nordic countries, Scandinavian aesthetic aims to create a cosy and inviting environment, often referred to as “hygge”. Scandinavian style features clean, bright and airy spaces, and a focus on practicality and minimal clutter. It might get confused with wabi-sabi because both focuses on simplicity and natural materials, but Scandinavian design doesn’t necessarily celebrates imperfection and the passage of time like what wabi-sabi is all about.

Example: A perfect-looking interior with sleek, white furniture, natural light, and simple, modern decor may offer a clean, cosy, and organised look, but it lacks the wabi-sabi appreciation for the beauty in natural imperfection.

Difference: Scandinavian design emphasises functionality, clean lines, and modern aesthetics, focusing on creating bright, airy spaces with minimal clutter. In contrast, wabi-sabi embraces a more lived-in quality that doesn’t necessarily look polished, clean, or perfectly designed.

6. Traditional Japanese Aesthetics vs. Wabi-Sabi

Traditional Japanese aesthetics often include elements found in Japanese culture, art, and history that creates a distinct Japanese look and feel. In comparison, wabi-sabi is a more nuanced concept that focus on embracing imperfection, transience, and simplicity, rather than merely achieving a Japanese appearance.

Example: A house with classic shoji screens and a tatami room may look and feel Japanese, but if it isn’t used much and the focus is on maintaining a pristine or idealised appearance rather than valuing the imperfect, lived-in quality, it does not align with the wabi-sabi principles.

Difference: While wabi-sabi originates from Japanese philosophy, its principles can be applied to objects and environments from any culture. Things do not need to conform to a specific Japanese style to be considered wabi-sabi. It can be expressed in various contexts and cultures. Wabi-sabi can be present in diverse settings and objects, regardless of their cultural origin or stylistic appearance.

7. Zen Aesthetics vs. Wabi-sabi

The Zen monks’ meditative practices and their appreciation for the simple and the understated heavily influenced the development of wabi-sabi. It often involves practices like meditation, mindful living, and contemplation. But unlike Zen, which focuses primarily on obtaining mindfulness and spiritual enlightenment, wabi-sabi encompasses a unique perspective on imperfection. The wabi-sabi philosophy is not just about simplicity and tranquility, but also about embracing the natural and inevitable decline of things over time.

Example: A beautifully designed building that features sleek, modern elements with a focus on balance and harmony may provide a serene and calm environment that supports meditation and mindfulness, but it lacks the essence of wabi-sabi, which contrasts with the idealised polished and orderly design.

Difference: Zen is primarily concerned with achieving a state of mental clarity, inner peace, and direct experience of reality. However, wabi-sabi values the charm in aging and natural flaws of things. It embraces the unfinished and the evolving rather than the perfect and complete. While wabi-sabi ‘s roots are deeply connected to Zen Buddhism, it adds a distinct layer by celebrating the beauty found in imperfections and the passage of time.

How to Wabi-Sabi at Home

Wabi-sabi invites us to see the world through a lens of humble elegance and natural grace, going beyond modern trends and manufactured imperfections.

To embrace wabi-sabi at home, start by focusing on simplicity and natural beauty instead of constantly pursuing perfection. Acknowledge that things are not always perfect and place greater value on the natural wear of objects, the simple and authentic, and the fleeting aspects of existence.

In essence, wabi-sabi is not merely a style to be mimicked but a way to see and appreciate the inherent beauty in the imperfect, the aged, and the simple. It’s a gentle reminder that true beauty often lies in the unexpected and the natural course of life.

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